The Why of Love | Four Ingredients to being an Irresistible Disciple - 1 Corinthians 16 | June 23


SCRIPTURE

1 Now regarding your question about the money being collected for God’s people in Jerusalem. You should follow the same procedure I gave to the churches in Galatia. 2 On the first day of each week, you should each put aside a portion of the money you have earned. Don’t wait until I get there and then try to collect it all at once. 3 When I come, I will write letters of recommendation for the messengers you choose to deliver your gift to Jerusalem. 4 And if it seems appropriate for me to go along, they can travel with me.

5 I am coming to visit you after I have been to Macedonia, for I am planning to travel through Macedonia. 6 Perhaps I will stay awhile with you, possibly all winter, and then you can send me on my way to my next destination. 7 This time I don’t want to make just a short visit and then go right on. I want to come and stay awhile, if the Lord will let me. 8 In the meantime, I will be staying here at Ephesus until the Festival of Pentecost. 9 There is a wide-open door for a great work here, although many oppose me.

10 When Timothy comes, don’t intimidate him. He is doing the Lord’s work, just as I am. 11 Don’t let anyone treat him with contempt. Send him on his way with your blessing when he returns to me. I expect him to come with the other believers.

12 Now about our brother Apollos—I urged him to visit you with the other believers, but he was not willing to go right now. He will see you later when he has the opportunity.

13 Be on guard. Stand firm in the faith. Be courageous. Be strong. 14 And do everything with love.

15 You know that Stephanas and his household were the first of the harvest of believers in Greece, and they are spending their lives in service to God’s people. I urge you, dear brothers and sisters, 16 to submit to them and others like them who serve with such devotion. 17 I am very glad that Stephanas, Fortunatus, and Achaicus have come here. They have been providing the help you weren’t here to give me. 18 They have been a wonderful encouragement to me, as they have been to you. You must show your appreciation to all who serve so well.

19 The churches here in the province of Asia send greetings in the Lord, as do Aquila and Priscilla and all the others who gather in their home for church meetings. 20 All the brothers and sisters here send greetings to you. Greet each other with a sacred kiss.

21 HERE IS MY GREETING IN MY OWN HANDWRITING—PAUL.

22 If anyone does not love the Lord, that person is cursed. Our Lord, come!

23 May the grace of the Lord Jesus be with you.

24 My love to all of you in Christ Jesus.

INTRO

Hey family!

We’ll we’ve made it. We did it.

At work, one of my coworkers likes to say, “you’re doing it.” Look at you “you’re doing it.” Although, in this case, it’s more like look at you, “you did it”. You’ve made it through the entire book of 1 Corinthians.

You’ve put up with me saying 1 Corinthians over and over again and although you may have playfully made fun of me, you didn’t question it. In fact, in all of you’re banter I bet you’re never going to be able to look at this letter again without imagining me in your head saying 1 Corinthians. So mission successful.

The last year has just been one big practical joke. Although I’m not sure what the punchline is, so I guess it wasn’t a very good joke. But in all seriousness, we have did it. We have arrived at the last chapter of 1 Corinthians. Chapter 16. And I am very proud of you all for sticking through it.

There are a lot of challenging things in this theologically heavy letter. So, my hope is that we haven’t just survived, but that we have been and are being changed through it all. That’s Paul’s goal with the Corinthians is to see them changed.

As you know by now, they were being changed in a bad way, they were being influenced by their culture more than Jesus. They were good at being spiritual, but they were bad at following Jesus. So Paul is writing to encourage them to be changed by the Gospel, for their lives to be conformed to the image of King Jesus and then he outlines what that looks like.

And as we have arrived here in chapter 16, Paul does his usual thing at the end of his letters, he gives some final words, lays out his travel plans, sends greetings and tells them to greet those who are on their way, and gives his final encouragement.

PUT IT INTO PRACTICE

It’s almost like Paul is saying in this particular letter, remember all the things I just wrote to you about. About being united in one faith, in one Spirit, under one Lord, for the one and only God. About living for God in a world that is overwhelmingly non-Christian and overall opposed to the message of Jesus. About laying aside your pride, preferences, desires, and not getting your own way. Lay aside your gifts and just love. Pursue the spiritual good of the people around you because it is so very worth it. No matter how difficult it may be, it’s worth it everytime.

Remember all that? Here are some ways you can start putting that into practice. Put it into practice. We’re collecting money for the church in Jerusalem. Here’s an opportunity for you to pour out of your personal freedom and what you do with your finances to bless brothers and sisters who you’ve never met. Sacrifice your treasure for the spiritual good of those who are in Christ. Here’s an opportunity to put it into practice.

Paul says I’m planning on coming to see you. When I’m there you can share with me the fruit of your faith. The love that should be growing in your heart. I can’t wait to experience all the ways God is changing you and reshaping your hearts and healing the divisions among you.

Not only am I coming, Paul says, but Timothy is coming. Please don’t intimidate him. Don’t treat him poorly. Here's an opportunity to love Timothy. Show all the beautiful ways God has changed you.

Apollos is probably going to come and Stephanas, Fortunatus, and Achaicus.

Stephanas and his house are the ones that Paul says are spending themselves for the Gospel and the glory of God. They are spending themselves. Here’s an opportunity for you to put into practice that whole discussion about submission we had. Submit to them. Serve them. They are doing wonderful work. Restore and encourage their souls.

Look at all of these opportunities that are coming your way to put it to work – to practice the expressions of the Spirit, of God’s love through you for the spiritual good of another.

I just want to say this before we move on and get to the main point for today. God is providing so many opportunities for you right now. We are not wanting for opportunity. If Paul was writing this letter to you, what names would be among this list? What opportunities would be listed? I know not everyone is a notetaker, although I would encourage you to start the habit. Don’t let these words spoken on a Sunday be left here. Let them flow in you and through you and work to change your heart.

Pull out some paper or open the notes app on your phone and just jot down a quick list of three opportunities that could be written for you. Here are opportunities to step away from self and toward the spiritual good for those around you. And the wonderful thing is that as you put into practice recognizing and acting on these opportunities, the more aware you will be of all the ways God wants to work in you and through you. You’ll see more and more opportunities.

These are the opportunities for you to put into practice all the beautiful things you are called to as a Christian, as a believer, as a disciple of Jesus.

AN IRRESISTIBLE DISCIPLE

Discipleship is in a way what we’ve been talking about this whole time. All the ways in which the Corinthians were being conformed into the image of the culture of the world rather than the image of Christ. When they should have been transformed into the image of Christ.

There’s that verse in Romans 12 right, “Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.”

If you know this verse, you probably know it in the NIV. Seems like that’s how we all memorized scripture back in the day.

“Do not be conformed to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.”

We’re talking about being conformed to the image of King Jesus. We’re talking about what it means to be a disciple of Jesus and what it means to disciple others. It means teaching people how to know Jesus and to be like Jesus — to obey God and seek His best for our lives.

In preparing for our time together today, I came across a beautiful phrase that I think sums up Paul’s intentions to make irresistible disciples. Irresistible disciples.

I love that little phrase. That’s what I want to be, an irresistible disciple.

But how do we become irresistible disciples Zach?

I’m so very glad that you asked. I would love to tell you.

Paul gives us the four ingredients to make an irresistible disciple. Sort of the four necessary actions we must internalize to take the best advantage of these opportunities God is presenting us, to depend on the Holy Spirit and walk into obedience as God transforms our hearts.

Paul says, “13 Be on guard. Stand firm in the faith. Be courageous. Be strong.”

There are four of them. They all reference sort of a military metaphor of soldiers on the battlefield.

“13 Be on guard. Stand firm in the faith. Be courageous. Be strong.”

The first two reference the Christian warrior awaiting attack; the next two refer to the actual combat.

WAKE UP!

Paul says, be on guard. Be alert. Wake up.

Wake up.

This reminds me of many stories throughout the Bible. Gideon and the midianites. God keeps telling Gideon he has too many men, for then people might be under the assumption that they won the battle under their own power. One time God uses how the men drink water from a stream to send some home. The ones who bent over to drink were sent away while those who cupped the water and lifted it to their mouths so as to remain vigilant were kept. They were awake and watchful.

The disciples were invited to stay awake and pray with Jesus in the garden, but were continuously found asleep. Wake up!

Isaiah loves to remind God’s people to wake up! In chapter 52 he writes, “Awake, awake, put on your strength, O Zion; put on your beautiful garments, O Jerusalem, the holy city;“

Jesus even tells the story of ten ladies invited to a wedding in Matthew 25. He says, ““Then the kingdom of heaven will be like ten virgins who took their lamps and went to meet the bridegroom. 2 Five of them were foolish, and five were wise. 3 For when the foolish took their lamps, they took no oil with them, 4 but the wise took flasks of oil with their lamps. 5 As the bridegroom was delayed, they all became drowsy and slept. 6 But at midnight there was a cry, ‘Here is the bridegroom! Come out to meet him.’ 7 Then all those virgins rose and trimmed their lamps. 8 And the foolish said to the wise, ‘Give us some of your oil, for our lamps are going out.’ 9 But the wise answered, saying, ‘Since there will not be enough for us and for you, go rather to the dealers and buy for yourselves.’ 10 And while they were going to buy, the bridegroom came, and those who were ready went in with him to the marriage feast, and the door was shut. 11 Afterward the other virgins came also, saying, ‘Lord, lord, open to us.’ 12 But he answered, ‘Truly, I say to you, I do not know you.’ 13 Watch therefore, for you know neither the day nor the hour.”

Wake up!

Jesus says again in Luke 12, “35 “Be dressed for service and keep your lamps burning, 36 as though you were waiting for your master to return from the wedding feast. Then you will be ready to open the door and let him in the moment he arrives and knocks.”

“You have to be there wide awake, at just the right moment. You need to not be distracted by unimportant things.”

There are sort of two purposes of being awake to think about. There is to be prepared for the arrival of the groom, of King Jesus. Then there is to be on guard against enemies or things that may distract us and catch us unaware, leave us distracted for when the King comes knocking. Watchfulness against various enemies and dangers and watchfulness for the coming of Christ.

“This changes the dynamic, does it not? Having a house fit for the king is not the issue, just as running out of oil is not the problem. Even if you are not ready, even if you are empty-handed, your home impoverished and your heart bereft of anything at all, don’t hide, don’t run off, scurrying about to make amends.”

The problem in this story is not necessarily that the ladies ran out of oil. Because they never ran out of oil in the story. There were afraid of running out of oil so they got distracted and left to go buy some as the bridegroom was arriving.

“When the king comes, just open the door as you are right now, and stand there, face to face. Give what you have, offer your simple presence, your empty hands, your expectant heart. That’s enough. Let the king have a seat in your humble home; let the bridegroom dance with all ten young women; let the feasting begin, ready or not.”

The Corinthians were not on watch against the culture that was creeping in and distracting them; divisions, litigation, self-satisfaction, the list goes on chapter after chapter. Wake up and focus on the outcome, the arrival of the King. We are lulled into a false sense of security, often thinking that there is a ceasefire in the battle. That the enemy is taking a break. Just because you may tire of the fight, doesn’t mean the enemy has. Wake up!

Vigilance is the posture of an irresistible disciple as we watch carefully for the Spirit’s moving and we guard ourselves against the barrage of the enemy so we are found awake and not distracted. Two more quick stories and we’ll move on.

In the secular usage of this command that Paul gives us, it describes people carefully crossing a river while stepping on slippery stones. We must pay attention as we walk so as not to end up in the water. That’s the image Paul is painting.

The second is from your favorite book in the Bible. That’s right – Habakkuk. Habakkuk seeks the Lord then He says, “I will climb up to my watchtower and stand at my guardpost. There I will wait to see what the Lord says and how he will answer…” (Habbakuk 2:1)

STAND UP!

Wake up! Paul says. Stand firm – stand up!

Wake up. Stand up.

That sounds like a Bob Marley song, “Get up, stand up. Stand up for your right. Get up, stand up. Don't give up the fight.”

Wise words for us as we strive to be irresistible disciples.

Stand up!

This is not the first time Paul has instructed the Corinthians to take a stand.

Last week we read, “1 Now I would remind you, brothers, of the gospel I preached to you, which you received, in which you stand, 2 and by which you are being saved…” (1 Corinthians 15:1-2)

Standing up has everything to do with what you are standing upon.

“The only way to "stand firm" is to be standing on a rock solid, unshakeable foundation and here the foundation is the faith, not subjective faith (believing) but objective faith (the object believed)”

As we learned from another parable of Jesus, we can seemingly build our houses on a firm foundation only to find out in the end that we were delusional. This is what Jesus says in Matthew 7, “24 “Everyone then who hears these words of mine and does them will be like a wise man who built his house on the rock. 25 And the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house, but it did not fall, because it had been founded on the rock. 26 And everyone who hears these words of mine and does not do them will be like a foolish man who built his house on the sand. 27 And the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell, and great was the fall of it.”

Paul says a very similar thing just a few more chapters back in Corinthians. He writes, “12 Therefore let anyone who thinks that he stands take heed lest he fall.” (1 Corinthians 10:12)

Stand up. Not only that, but examine what exactly you’re standing on. An irresistible disciple stands firm in faith. Irresistible disciples stand firm together in one Spirit. They stand up on the firm foundation of the Lord.

These are three ways in which an irresistible disciple stands up.

Stand firm in faith.

We see that here in chapter 16. The ESV version reads, “stand firm in the faith.” Of course that appears elsewhere as well.

We stand firm in one Spirit.

1 Corinthians is full of Paul’s encouragements toward unity and oneness. Philippians 1:27 also joins in that crescendo, “27 Above all, you must live as citizens of heaven, conducting yourselves in a manner worthy of the Good News about Christ. Then, whether I come and see you again or only hear about you, I will know that you are standing together with one spirit and one purpose, fighting together for the faith, which is the Good News.”

Finally stand firm in the Lord.

Paul also writes in Philippians 4:1 to stand firm in the Lord, but again for a bit of diversity He exports us in 1 Thessalonians 3 when he writes, “7 We have been greatly encouraged in the midst of our troubles and suffering, dear brothers and sisters, because you have remained strong in your faith. 8 It gives us new life to know that you are standing firm in the Lord.”

We stand up! We build our lives on Him. We are firmly anchored to the Gospel and to His promises. We stand firm in faith. In faith of our future resurrection even. We stand firm together. We stand firm in the Lord. He is our only rock and solid ground.

GROW UP!

Wake up! Stand Up! Paul tells us. The third ingredient of an irresistible disciple is the we are maturing. That we are growing up. Grow up! Paul says.

Grow up! Be courageous.

You may notice that some translations say something to the effect of “act like men” or “play the man”. This is kind of a shorthand for the Corintihans to stop acting like children in the way that they think, selfishly running after whatever they desire in the moment. Stop trying to self-gratify, but trust God for the future.

I’m not sure if you have noticed, but Paul has compared the Corinthians to children like three different times. And I know Jesus says that to such belongs the kingdom of Heaven (Matthew 19:14), but I’m pretty sure Jesus and Paul had different childish characteristics in mind when they used those words respectively.

Which is kind of the point. The phrase that I have come up with over the years, I’m not sure if I’ve shared it with any of you or not. It’s more of a statement I suppose that sums it up. I am such a child in all the ways I shouldn’t be. Isn’t that about it. We are all childish in the wrong way.

Paul makes this distinction back in chapter 14 when he writes, “20 Brothers, do not be children in your thinking. Be infants in evil, but in your thinking be mature.”

“Maturity is one of the marks of love (1 Cor. 13:11), and something the Corinthians were especially deficient in.”

It’s interesting that this phrase that Paul uses to literally “play the man” or something to that effect only shows up here in the New Testament. Certainly the idea is captured in other phrases. You know where it shows up a whole lot? Obviously the Old Testament since it’s not the New Testament, that’s kind of the only other option.

But more specifically, it is repeated by Moses in his instructions to Joshua, and then reflected in Joshua’s commands to those under his leadership. You are probably familiar with this, though you may not yet know why.

In Deuteronomy 31 Moses instructs Johsua, “6 Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.”

And one of my favorite verses in the Bible Joshua 1:9, Joshua repeats, 9 Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.”

Here’s a quick list of 22 places this idea, this exhortation, shows up in the Old Testament. Feel free to write them down or take a picture for reference in your study throughout the week.

Deuteronomy 31:6; Deuteronomy 31:7; Deuteronomy 31:23; Joshua 1:6; Joshua. 1:7; Joshua 1:9; Joshua 1:18; Joshua 10:25; 2 Samuel 10:12; 2 Samuel 13:28; 1 Chronicles 19:13; 1 Chronicles 22:13; 1 Chronicles 28:20; 2 Chronicles 32:7; Psalms 27:14; Psalms. 31:24; Jeremiah 2:25; Jeremiah 18:12; Daniel 10:19; Daniel 11:1; Micah 4:10; Nahum 2:1

An irresistible disciple doesn’t pray for an easier life. Grow up! Pray to be strengthened by the Spirit of God.

Phillips Brooks. I don’t know who that is. Apparently he wrote “O Little Town of Bethlehem”. So there’s that. Phillips Brooks said, “Do not pray for easy lives! Pray to be stronger men. Do not pray for tasks equal to your powers. Pray for powers equal to your tasks. Then the doing of your work shall be no miracle, but you shall be a miracle.”

Jesus has not called us to an easy, self-indulgent life. The easy life does not lead us down the narrow path. God promises us in His word that He will light the way, not that He will remove the bumps.

The irresistible disciples is growing up toward Heaven, toward holiness, toward the one who alone is holy. We must always be looking up, even as we trudge our way through the difficulties of life.

PRAY IT UP!

Wake up! Stand Up! Grow Up! Lastly, be strong.

I Know that doesn’t end in “up”. My fellow OCDers are really struggling at the moment. We can say, “Pray it up!”

Paul is always praying for spiritual strengthening to descend upon him and his brothers and sisters in Christ.

He writes to the Ephesians, “14 For this reason I bow my knees before the Father, 15 from whom every family in heaven and on earth is named, 16 that according to the riches of his glory he may grant you to be strengthened with power through his Spirit in your inner being, 17 so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith—that you, being rooted and grounded in love, 18 may have strength to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, 19 and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God.

Paul wanted the Corinthian to be strengthened by Spirit, and so he prayed diligently for this. Pray it up, along with the saints in glory that you may be strengthened so as to not grow weary in practicing righteousness. Let me give you a quick definition of righteousness since it is one of those churchy words. Doing right by God and people. May the Spirit of God strengthen you to do right by people.

If we keep practicing this, what we practice becomes our second nature, then in a crisis and in the details of life we find that not only will the grace of God stand by us, but also our own nature. Whereas if we refuse to practice, it is not God’s grace but our own nature that fails when the crisis comes, because we have not been practicing in actual life.

The way I like to say it, and the way I pray for it is that my default would be righteousness. Not frustration. Not anger. Not sin and selfishness. But an irresistible disciple practices in life so that the Spirit at work is our default. That we would act from the Spirit and not react from our own strength.

“Herbert Spencer said people were trained to think like pagans six days a week and like Christians the remaining day; consequently in the actual things of life we decide as pagans, not as Christians at all.”

I pray the Lord would strengthen us. Not with strength of activity, but the strength of being. To change our nature and not just the appearance of our actions.

DO EVERYTHING WITH LOVE

So that’s it. The ingredients of an irresistible disciple.

" Wake up!" That is, stay vigilant. Be on the alert.

"Stand up!" Seize what is already yours! Retain it. Don't let it go! Don't go back on what God has already given you!

"Grow up!" Is the trend in your life and actions moving toward an increased likeness to Jesus?

And "pray it up!" Tough times lay ahead. We need the Spirit of God at work in our lives, strengthening us.

It is worth noting that there is more to this sentence. There’s a secret sauce that Paul reveals in the end, “14 And do everything with love.” Let everything you do be done in love.

This is not a command like the others, but rather the manner in which the four preceding commands should operate.

“In other words Paul is not saying do the previous four commands and then do this one "with" love or accompanied by love. No, the previous commands are to be carried out in the atmosphere of unconditional, God-like, God enabled love.”

“Love "keeps our firmness from becoming hardness and our strength from becoming domineering. It keeps our maturity gentle and considerate. It keeps our right doctrine from becoming obstinate dogmatism and our right living from becoming smug self-righteousness."

“This ingredient was in "short supply" among the believers in Corinth! And so I am immediately reminded of Paul's warning against doing anything without love.”

I just want to finish our time in this wonderful letter with those words once again, the climax of Paul’s teaching, chapter 13.

“1 If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. 3 If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing.

4 Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant 5 or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; 6 it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. 7 Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

8 Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when the perfect comes, the partial will pass away. 11 When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways. 12 For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I have been fully known.

13 So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love.”

Resources (*the views expressed within the following content are solely the author's and may not necessarily reflect the opinions and beliefs of Mountainside Church):

https://www.preceptaustin.org/1-corinthians-16-commentary#16:13

https://www.cru.org/us/en/train-and-grow/help-others-grow/discipleship/what-is-discipleship.html#:~:text=The%20discipleship%20process%20is%20more,His%20best%20for%20their%20lives.

https://projects.iq.harvard.edu/francisclooney/blog/awake-night-waiting-beloved#:~:text=%22Ten%20virgins%20took%20their%20lamps,jars%20along%20with%20their%20lamps.

The Why of Love | Don't Waste Your Life - 1 Corinthians 15 | June 16


A WASTED LIFE

Hey family!

Good morning. Good morning.

Can we just dive right in? Can we go deep real quick? Just skip all the pomp and circumstance and get right down to it?

In the darkest nights of the soul, I have a fear that I’m wasting my life. I know I’m afraid of a lot of things. But when I reflect on what is most terrifying to me, what is most gut turning, it is to be at the end of my life, look back, and have the realization that I didn’t do anything of any value – of any real substance.

I fear that.

When I was in High School, as many of you may know, I went to the North Carolina School of Science and Mathematics in Durham – go Unicorns!

When I was in High School, I was fortunate enough to have a mentorship in an ecological lab at Duke University where I helped in their research studying the effects of climate change through the measurement of phosphorus levels in rainwater. Trust me, it’s as exciting as it sounds.

Do you know what some of my classmates were doing in their mentorships? One girl was a part of a team that discovered a link to a gene that causes breast cancer. How life changing is that? Another kid contributed to the discovery of a galaxy. Isn’t that incredible? What was I doing pipetting rainwater into a spectrophotometer? (Still as exciting as it sounds)

Many of my friends from those days have gone on to be neurologists/neurosurgeons, you know – brain doctors. Probably some are quite literally rocket scientists.

I’m not envious of them. It’s not wealth and status that I fear I’m missing out on. I’m not afraid that I’m missing out on life or accomplishment. That’s not what I’m talking about. I don’t envy these people. In fact, Paul actually insinuates in this chapter that we are the ones to be envied.

Jesus said in Luke 12, “Beware! Guard against every kind of greed. Life is not measured by how much you own.” 16 Then he told a story: “A rich man had a fertile farm that produced fine crops. 17 He said to himself, ‘What should I do? I don’t have room for all my crops.’ 18 Then he said, ‘I know! I’ll tear down my barns and build bigger ones. Then I’ll have room enough to store all my wheat and other goods. 19 And I’ll sit back and say to myself, “My friend, you have enough stored away for years to come. Now take it easy! Eat, drink, and be merry!”’ 20 “But God said to him, ‘You fool! You will die this very night. Then who will get everything you worked for?’ 21 “Yes, a person is a fool to store up earthly wealth but not have a rich relationship with God.”

I love my life. I love my family. I love Jenny. I love Canaan and Ada. I love my job, both of them. I’m not in it for the money, I have no idea how much I make, probably less than you and more than I deserve. I love this family. Being relational is hard for me and challenging, but it’s good. I’m satisfied. I’m satisfied in God and with life. Would I like to own the house I live in? Yes. Would I love to travel more? Perhaps. But those aren’t necessities in life that I’m going to one day regret if they don’t happen.

When I peer into the future, what I fear most is that I will look back and that my life would have had no significant worth to the Kingdom of God. That’s what keeps me up at night. I’m not all that worried about not being welcomed into the open arms of God. I have assurance that my salvation does not depend on me. So, I’m not worried about getting into Heaven, you might say, even though, Biblically speaking, that’s not exactly the prize, I am worried about not bringing anyone with me.

To that, Paul has some encouraging words.

“58 My dear brothers and sisters, stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, for you know that nothing you do for the Lord is ever useless.” (1 Corinthians 15:58, NLT)

Everything you do for Him is worthwhile. It’s all worth it. No matter how great or seemingly insignificant, and even if you can’t see it, if it’s for the Lord then it is valuable and your life is not a wasted life.

Therefore, devote yourself fully to the work of the Lord. Do everything no matter how great or small for Him. When you brush your teeth in the morning, brush the Hell out of them. Eh? “Whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do everything for the glory of God” (1 Corinthians 10:31)

I used to believe that even if none of this is real then it would still be the best pursuit to set your heart to, to love selflessly, to care for people, to do good in the world. Isn’t it right, and admirable, and noble to try to leave this world better than you found it? Should it lead to more fulfilling relationships and a more fulfilling life to treat each other well?

Through these passages in chapter 15 I’m beginning to see what Paul seemingly knows and what the world at large understands. If there is no God then why not pursue self-pleasure, why not chase after what feels good, why not be lovers of self? Without God there is no purpose but to enjoy life in whatever way seems most enjoyable to you no matter what harm you cause to yourself or others. That’s what the world believes. If someone gets in your way of pursuing whatever life you want, then toss them aside because they don’t really love you anyway. “If there is no resurrection, “Let’s feast and drink, for tomorrow we die!” There’s no point. Waste your life in whatever way seems least wasteful to you.

But because God is real. Because Jesus lived on this earth. Because He died, was buried, and rose again forever conquering death so that Paul can write and the Scriptures be fulfilled, “Death is swallowed up in victory.” (1 Corinthians 15:54, NLT) Because this reality points to an even greater reality where there is no pain, or hurt, no more guilt or shame, no more tears. Because all of this is true and really happened and will one day happen, our lives are not wasted and a life lived for God is to be envied. A life in pursuit of God’s presence is not a wasted life. A life lived in the presence of a God who sees you, who loves you, who cares for you, who is for you, who will never leave you, and will never abandon you, who is hear right not just in your corner, but fighting for you, a life lived in pursuit of God who reveals Himself to you to be experienced and enjoyed by you in a million different ways is not a wasted life.

That’s what we call the Gospel.

WHAT IS THE GOSPEL

It’s no wonder that the majority of this chapter centers around the good news that King Jesus has come. 1 Corinthians 15 may be the clearest definition of the Gospel in all the Bible.

“Let me now remind you, dear brothers and sisters, of the Good News I preached to you before. You welcomed it then, and you still stand firm in it. 2 It is this Good News that saves you if you continue to believe the message I told you—unless, of course, you believed something that was never true in the first place.

3 I passed on to you what was most important and what had also been passed on to me. Christ died for our sins, just as the Scriptures said. 4 He was buried, and he was raised from the dead on the third day, just as the Scriptures said.” (1 Corinthians 15:1-4, NLT)

Paul writes, I’m telling you what is of first importance: that Christ died…

“The gospel begins with [those] two words… Christ died. The first word in the gospel is Jesus, and the second word is died.”

The resurrection is important and inseparable and indispensable from this good news, but you don’t get there without this first part. Jesus died for you, to eliminate your guilt so that you can enjoy Him. Jesus died so that you may have a new full life centered around God and the enjoyment of Him now and in this life. Jesus died so that one day you will get to enjoy Him in the fullness of who He is with resurrected bodies and fear, and pain, and death will no longer be a thing.

There’s nobody for whom this message is irrelevant. Everybody will die, unless Jesus comes back first. Though it is a defeated enemy, we all have to deal with death. It is the last great trial.

The Gospel is such that “you have spectacularly good news about death. Nobody else does. Nobody. Muslims do not have good news about death. They’re crossing their fingers. Hindus don’t have good news. Maybe you’ll come back as a cat. Jews don’t have good news. It’s a conflicted message in the Jewish synagogue about death. Atheists don’t have good news about death. The world wants to run away from this because nobody has any good news — except you. You have phenomenally good news [for] people who are facing death.”

Jesus’ resurrection gives us hope in this life and for our own future resurrection. It gives us forgiveness. It gives us acceptance. It gives us freedom – an abundant life now. And it gives us hope for a life to come.

PROOF OF THE GOSPEL

As there were some in the Corinthian church who were doubting the resurrection, Paul doesn’t just leave us to trust him that Jesus' death, burial, and resurrection form the foundation of this hope in life and for the future. That you can’t just get rid of Jesus’ resurrection and say it didn’t happen. All of life depends on it. He provides evidence.

In our modern day, there are some who would say that evidence for the resurrection is non-existent, or at the very least worse than you may imagine. They would contend that Christianity is a baseless religion that is stuck in the past and as Karl Marx famously described an “opiate of the masses.”

These same people will recognize the historical accuracy of the events Paul talks about. That they did actually happen in history. But they deny the Biblical conclusion.

So in response we must demonstrate two things. “We must maintain a reasonable case that [the] biblical portrait is true. But in addition, we must also demonstrate that [Jesus] is worth following. We must show from Scripture and experience that this Jesus is not only true, but that He quenches the deepest soul thirst of all humans—that he is ultimately what all people long for.”

Paul seeks to do both of these things in what can only be described as his defense of the Gospel. He starts with the evidence.

He says, “3 I passed on to you what was most important and what had also been passed on to me. Christ died for our sins, just as the Scriptures said. 4 He was buried, and he was raised from the dead on the third day, just as the Scriptures said.”

There are more than 300 prophecies in the Hebrew Bible about the anointed king of Israel that would one day come. Some Jesus had control over, like when He turned over the tables of the money changers in the temple. He could decide to do that. Others were out of His control such as being born in Bethlehem.

A mathematician named Peter Stoner set out to calculate the statistical odds of one man born of the time fulfilling all these prophecies. His scientific article was peer reviewed and approved to accurately represent the probabilities. He found that to even fulfill eight prophecies, the odds were one hundred quadrillion to one. That’s a one with 17 zeros. I think it’s something like a million billion to one. It is perhaps possible but you would have a far better chance of winning the lottery twice in a row.

If you expand that to fulfill even 48 of the prophecies in one person the odds are not in your favor. It skyrockets to one in 10 to the 157th power. That’s 157 zeros. I’m not even sure they have a name for that. This is what scientists would explain to be so improbable that it’s basically impossible. I mean what’s the difference. And of course the inevitable conclusion is that there is not a computer in the world that is powerful enough to crunch the statistical value of fulfilling all 324 prophecies. It is impossible.

And yet Jesus did it.

“5 He was seen by Peter and then by the Twelve. 6 After that, he was seen by more than 500 of his followers at one time, most of whom are still alive, though some have died. 7 Then he was seen by James and later by all the apostles.”

Paul is stacking on the evidence. Peter saw the resurrected Jesus. The twelve disciples saw Him. Then 500 followers all saw Him at once. It wasn’t a hallucination or something of the sort.

We can, at times, tend to look back unfavorably upon the more ancient generations. We believe ourselves to be more advanced, more sophisticated. Those superstitious fools believing that people can come back from the dead.

They didn’t think that. They knew people don’t do that. That’s why the apostles ran away when Jesus was killed. That’s what happened time after time when someone would claim to be the Messiah. The rabbi was killed and the followers scattered. But something changed within the disciples of Jesus. There was something different.

Not only that, but some of those 500 were still alive Paul says, so you can go ask them. Don’t just believe what I’m saying, go find out for yourselves.

Also, James saw the resurrected Jesus. James, the brother of Jesus, who would become the Bishop of the church in Jerusalem encountered the living God and He worshiped Him. James, who thought his brother was crazy when He was alive, worshiped Him after His death. Something changed in James.

“8 Last of all, as though I had been born at the wrong time, I also saw him. 9 For I am the least of all the apostles. In fact, I’m not even worthy to be called an apostle after the way I persecuted God’s church.”

Here’s the crazy part about all of this, Paul’s encounter with the resurrected Jesus on the road to Damascus was only about three years after Jesus’ death. Already there was an established doctrine of the resurrection, within three years. Don’t you think someone could have checked to see if Jesus’ body was still there? Don’t you think Paul could have investigated to make sure?

Not only that, but pretty much every Apostle who would have been among those who could have potentially stolen Jesus’ body died horrible deaths holding fast to the faith that Jesus was alive.

Paul was not interested in Jesus before his conversion. Jesus was a dark stain on all that he cared about and had dedicated his life to. Yet, he suffered more than any of them.

In Acts 9 God told Ananias, “Go! I have chosen Saul for an important work. He must tell about me to those who are not Jews, to kings, and to the people of Israel. I will show him how much he must suffer for my name.”

Paul writes here, “30 And why should we ourselves risk our lives hour by hour? 31 For I swear, dear brothers and sisters, that I face death daily.”

Why would they do that if not for the resurrection?

Something had changed. Jesus is not only true, but He is ultimately what all people long for.

RESULT OF THE GOSPEL - GRACE

10 But whatever I am now, it is all because God poured out his special favor on me—and not without results. For I have worked harder than any of the other apostles; yet it was not I but God who was working through me by his grace. 11 So it makes no difference whether I preach or they preach, for we all preach the same message you have already believed.

By the grace of God, I am what I am. Our whole life is a dependence on the power of grace to be what we ought to be and do what we ought to do.

There is every bit the real sense that this whole chapter is to encourage you that no matter what it may appear to you, no matter how much you believe that you fall short, no matter how undeserving you believe yourself to be that by the grace of God you are becoming who you already are, who God sees you to be. You are preparing yourself for the imperishable body. You are in His eyes, precious beyond belief.

“Paul is saying the secret of contentment, the secret of satisfaction, is trusting the promises, “I’m going to strengthen you. You’re mine. I love you.”

“He’s saying, “Believe me. Trust me. Every hour of your life, trust me. I will help you. I will strengthen you. I’ll hold you up. I’ve got an avalanche of promises for you. Trust me.”

Grace is the unmerited favor shown to us by God. It is a blessing of standing, of status as God’s beloved children that we did not earn and we do not deserve. And grace is also the power of God for us who believe to do what we ought to do and to be who we ought to be. There is past grace that says you are mine. I have chosen you. I love you. And there is present and future grace that says I’ve got you. I am with you. I love you.

“The right response of the heart towards past grace is thankfulness, and the right response toward future grace is faith.”

Trust Him in all things, pour yourself out for Him, spend your life telling everyone you meet about King Jesus and demonstrating Jesus in the way that you live and the way that you love and in the end you will find a life not wasted.

“Our God doesn’t leave us to labor, and sing, and overcome, and run our race in our own strength. He has good works prepared for us ahead of time, and gives us his Spirit to empower them in and through us. He doesn’t demand a dead sprint, but invites us to walk in them, and to say with joy in the end, “Yet not I but through Christ in me.”

A LIFE NOT WASTED

“If Christ has not been raised, then all our preaching is useless, and your faith is useless. 15 And we apostles would all be lying about God—for we have said that God raised Christ from the grave. But that can’t be true if there is no resurrection of the dead. 16 And if there is no resurrection of the dead, then Christ has not been raised. 17 And if Christ has not been raised, then your faith is useless and you are still guilty of your sins. 18 In that case, all who have died believing in Christ are lost! 19 And if our hope in Christ is only for this life, we are more to be pitied than anyone in the world.

20 But in fact, Christ has been raised from the dead. He is the first of a great harvest of all who have died.”

We are not to be pitied – we are to be envied. Don’t let that puff you up, but let it lift you up. Don’t feel sorry for me. Don’t wonder if I’m wasting my life. “A life lived for personal pleasure rather than for the glorification of Christ is a wasted life.” A life lived to bring glory to King Jesus is a life not wasted.

The Corinthians had taken their eyes off of the purpose, off of the outcome.

There’s a joke from the comedian Jim Gaffigan that I’ve heard repeated in increasing frequency as of late. It’s when he’s talking about cake. He says, “Cake's a powerful food. Cake can actually bring people together. You know... "It's Bill's birthday" "Yeah I hate that guy." "There's cake in the conference room." "Well I should say hello."

If we could see the purpose, if we could see the value. If you could only peer into the future when you have shuffled off this mortal coil – if you could see what you will be. That’s a powerful motivating factor. When you can see what it's all for. Then you will know it’s not wasted. This is a life not wasted. Nothing you ever do for the Lord is wasted, none of it is useless.

Jim Elliot, the missionary who was famously killed in Ecuador with seemingly no fruit to his work, said, “He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep, to gain what he cannot lose.”

Therefore abound in good works with an unshakeable foundation.

“58 My dear brothers and sisters, stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, for you know that nothing you do for the Lord is ever useless.” (1 Corinthians 15:58, NLT)

We love, because it provides an unshakeable foundation for our life and purpose in all that we do. “Therefore, do huge amounts of Christ-exalting work because none of it is in vain.”

PRAYER

Lord, pour out your Spirit in such a way that your people desire Jesus more than they desire other things and other people. That we would experience the satisfaction that only comes from you, the satisfaction that quenches the deepest thirsts of the human desire. Lord, empower us to love, empower us to do good works, knowing that nothing we do for Your glory will ever be wasted. We are not wasting our lives, but we will spend them. We will spend them for You and You alone to proclaim Jesus with our words, to demonstrate Jesus with our lives, and to call all peoples in all places to join us as we step into becoming real people, who are a part of this real loving family, all to worship You – the real and true God.

Resources (*the views expressed within the following content are solely the author's and may not necessarily reflect the opinions and beliefs of Mountainside Church):

https://midtowndowntown.com/sermons/jesus-resurrection

https://midtowndowntown.com/sermons/our-resurrection

https://sermons.love/skip-heitzig/13973-skip-heitzig-1-corinthians-1520-58.html

https://www.gotquestions.org/stand-firm.html

https://www.desiringgod.org/messages/deal-with-death

https://www.desiringgod.org/messages/living-by-faith-in-future-grace/excerpts/grace-arrives-when-you-need-it

https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/labor-like-youre-loved

https://nickcady.org/2020/02/18/the-statistical-probability-of-jesus-fulfilling-the-messianic-prophecies/

The Why of Love | Build Up the Church in Love - 1 Corinthians 14 | June 9


SCRIPTURE

“Let love be your highest goal! But you should also desire the special abilities the Spirit gives—especially the ability to prophesy. 2 For if you have the ability to speak in tongues, you will be talking only to God, since people won’t be able to understand you. You will be speaking by the power of the Spirit, but it will all be mysterious. 3 But one who prophesies strengthens others, encourages them, and comforts them. 4 A person who speaks in tongues is strengthened personally, but one who speaks a word of prophecy strengthens the entire church.

5 I wish you could all speak in tongues, but even more I wish you could all prophesy. For prophecy is greater than speaking in tongues, unless someone interprets what you are saying so that the whole church will be strengthened.” (NLT)

NEXT STEPS

Hey family!

Real quick, I just want to give a bit of a high level recap of where we’ve been the last several weeks as we are nearing the end of this beautiful letter. Because, believe it or not, we’re almost there.

We started off by talking a lot about what we as Christians are called to, because Paul wanted to remind the Corinthians. He wanted to remind them of what they were saved from and alternatively what they were saved to. So he is calling us to not look back, but to press on toward Jesus. Wherever you are at right now, whether you’ve been a believer for a long time or just for a short few years, there’s one question that is alway appropriate – what’s your next step toward Jesus?

It causes you to consider where you’re at, where you’ve come from and where you are headed. What is your next step toward Jesus? Is it foundational? Is it something like baptism – to officially declare to the body and the world that you have set your heart to follow King Jesus? Is it faith-forming, to meditate on the nature of God, on what it looks like to be satisfied in God alone? To seek His presence?

What’s your next step toward Jesus? None of us have arrived yet. Is it functional? Do you need to grow in some particular areas? Is the Spirit trying to work in certain areas of your life and you just need to let Him?

I once heard a description of what it means to quench the Spirit, which is a phrase used in 1 Thessalonians 5:19 that has some bearing on what we're talking about today in chapter 14 because it deals with prophecy and how we should think about prophecy. “19 Do not quench the Spirit. 20 Do not despise prophecies, 21 but test everything…” (1 Thessalonians 5:19-21, ESV).

If you picture your spiritual life as a house, but it’s on fire. And in this case a house fire is a good thing. Oftentimes, we want God to work in certain areas of our lives, we want Him to burn in this room but not that other room. God don’t touch that part of my heart, I want you to work here. I want you to help me have a better prayer life or help me love more. But I don’t want you to deal with my anger. I don’t want you to convict me of submission. I don’t want to give up anything. I just want to be a better Chrisitan you know, doing Chrisitan things.

So we try to redirect the fire. We try to keep certain rooms from burning, we shut them off and say God here’s where I want you to work. You can’t have that yet – I’m not sure if you can ever have that. We quench the Spirit. We’re putting out the fire. We’re dictating to God where we want Him to live and move and have His being.

When what we should be doing is figuring out where He wants to burn and fanning that into a raging conflagration. If you want God to burn in certain areas, in certain rooms, fan and fuel where He’s at and what He wants to deal with and then the fire will spread to the rest of your life.

Paul told Timothy, “I remind you to fan into flame the gift of God, which is in you… 7 for God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.” (2 Timothy 1:6-7, ESV). Wherever He’s at, whatever He wants to do, let Him work, give it to Him, nothing is hidden, nothing is off limits. Lord take over and burn. What’s your next step toward Jesus? It’s difficult, but there’s probably some people around you who have observed and are aware of what that may be even more than you are. Where is the Spirit trying to move in your life? Stop getting in the way with your own ideas of what that should look like.

Paul has been calling us to not look back, but to press on toward Jesus. A disciple of Jesus, and we are all called to be disciples, should be growing in Christ-likenss. I’ve been using the term becoming real people because that’s what it truly is. We are becoming conformed to the image of the real God – Jesus. Being conformed means it’s okay to lose a part of yourself – in fact, it’s going to require it. What are you afraid of losing? What are you afraid of letting go of? What do you think will happen if you just let go? Let’s press on toward Jesus together.

WE GROW TOGETHER

Paul’s been calling us to togetherness.

We have not been saved to a private faith, but to a family. Your salvation is not for you alone, but for the faith of those around you. There is a togetherness that exists in Christian fellowship, there is unity, where our lives are inextricably woven together under the headship of King Jesus.

One of my favorite metaphors is of the giant sequoia trees, which despite their towering height grow very shallow roots, because they also never grow alone, but they depend on one another, they lean on one another, they spread their roots out wide and wrap their lives around each other’s lives.

We as Christians grow together toward Jesus. We take these steps together. Together, we are being shaped into the image of Christ to model with our culture, with our teaching, with our words, and actions; this is what it looks like to follow Jesus. This is how we handle money. This is how we handle relationships. This is how we love. This is how we handle conflict. This is what it looks like to be a disciple of Christ. We lay aside our preferences and pursue people. We press in and we lift up.

That’s still been the conversation as we’ve entered into this last stretch looking at the Who of Love, the Way of love, and now the Why of love. Love bears all things. Love believes all things. Love endures all things. Love is not fragile, but opens itself up to being wronged again and again for a very specific purpose. A purpose that we’re going to talk about today.

PURSUE LOVE

I said last week that chapter 13 was the climax. Which means we’re not really going to encounter anything new from now on, but it’s going to point back to this climax as we pursue love. The next three chapters are going to point back and say here’s why. There’s purpose in love. It’s not just for good vibes. We’re doing something when we pursue love in this self-sacrificing way that seeks the spiritual good of those around you.

I was in a meeting this past week where a graduate student, who by all accounts doesn’t seem to be a believer, I don’t know maybe she is. But her observation was, and I’ll paraphrase in my own words, but her observation was young people today have a great fear of outwardly appearing to not accept and approve but when it comes down to it, they only show up if they clearly know what they are getting out of it. That our culture is creating a people who are outwardly accepting but inwardly concerned only with how it benefits them. That’s how they make decisions. Love calls us to be unconcerned with what we’re getting out of it. Love calls us to lay down our self and pursue the spiritual good of others.

Paul’s still talking about orderly worship. He’s still confronting the Corinthians in all the messed up ways that they had gotten it wrong, in the same ways that we get it wrong. He’s bringing it back to spiritual gifts even. This time he’s focusing on two specific spiritual gifts to use them as the proof texts for where the Corithians were going astray and why they should be thinking differently, loving differently.

SPIRITUAL GIFTS

With that in mind, I want to repeat our definition of a spiritual gift in case you have forgotten, or didn’t write it down, or weren’t here a couple weeks ago, because that will help us understand the question why do we love. Not what we get out of it, but the purpose motivating love.

So, a spiritual gift is an expression of the love of God in and through you to initiate, build, and sustain faith in another person. It’s the expression of the love of God through you for the faith of another.

In all the ways that you could possibly be gifted, if the Spirit's not moving through it and faith is not the result of it, then it’s not a spiritual gift. I don’t care if you have taken a test and can name your gifts or not, it’s not a spiritual gift if it’s not Spirit supplied, God-honoring, and others-directed.

You know what’s kind of funny? And I’m afraid we’ve been lied to a bit. Paul doesn’t even use the word gift – not in chapter 14 at least. In chapter 12 he uses the word charisma which is sort of like a gift but even more so reflective of the grace and favor showered upon us by God. It’s more about the Spirit’s working in your life. Paul in essence is commanding us to not desire a tangible gift, but the work of the Spirit in your life. He is literally saying, follow the way of love, pursue love and desire for the Spirit to work in you and through you. We get so caught up in the gift that it shows in our translations. The work of the Spirit in us and through us can be so much more practical if we’re not preoccupied with naming our gifts.

Do you know where the Spirit inhabiting a human being is first mentioned in the Bible? Where is there first a mention of the Spirit of God embodied in a person? It’s probably not where you think. It’s probably less exciting than you imagine.

Exodus 35, “​​30 Moses told the people of Israel, “The Lord has specifically chosen Bezalel son of Uri, grandson of Hur, of the tribe of Judah. 31 The Lord has filled Bezalel with the Spirit of God, giving him great wisdom, ability, and expertise in all kinds of crafts. 32 He is a master craftsman, expert in working with gold, silver, and bronze. 33 He is skilled in engraving and mounting gemstones and in carving wood. He is a master at every craft. 34 And the Lord has given both him and Oholiab son of Ahisamach, of the tribe of Dan, the ability to teach their skills to others. 35 The Lord has given them special skills as engravers, designers, embroiderers in blue, purple, and scarlet thread on fine linen cloth, and weavers. They excel as craftsmen and as designers.”

That’s the first time the Bible mentions that the Spirit of God filled a human and endowed him with a gifting from the spirit. To make art and teach others to make art to bring glory to God and faith in people through the tabernacle.

Two weeks ago, in our family group, we had this discussion with regard to chapter 12. Because from our point of view there are certain gifts especially healings that seem more supernaturally transcendent to us. But in chapter 12 Paul seems to separate miracles from healings, which are kind of the main gifts we think of to be miraculous. When Jesus did miracles, He was usually healing someone, so what are we misunderstanding? Where’s the disconnect?

I believe the point to be made is that because a spiritual gift is an expression of God’s love through you for the faith of another, they are all miraculous, no matter how normal they seem to us. They are all spiritual gifts because they all work from the spirit for the spirit to bring about the miracle of faith in someone where faith didn’t already exist. All of us are here today because of the result of a miracle, of a thousand miracles, which have initiated within us faith where it did not previously exist.

No matter what gifts you have, they are all miracles. They are all miraculous because God is the one creating faith out of nothing through them. The Corinthians were getting so hung up on the one they perceived to be best, the one that brought the most attention to themselves. Which is where this chapter comes from.

That’s not why we love. Love doesn’t bring attention to itself. We still get hung up on gifts in the same way. We become so fixated on debating the place on those gifts that appear to be the most supernatural to us. Both sides, whether you are cessationist and believe the more miraculous signs of the Spirit are present sense the fullness of revelation was complete, or whether you are continuationist and believe those gifts will still be needed until Jesus returns. The focus is on the wrong thing and it blinds both sides.

For some of you, those categories brought up feelings where you believe whoever is on the other side of that, or whatever argument, is what’s wrong with Christianity while not acknowledging the ways in which you yourself take it too far. We all take it too far, when we should instead humbly learn from the hearts of other Spirit-filled, Bible-believing disciples of Jesus who might happen to disagree with us in some ways.

They are all supernatural, no matter how mundane they may appear to us. All the ways the Spirit gifts us are supernaturally transcendent. That’s the point of this chapter. Paul just uses tongues and prophecy as the vehicle for how we are to judge our desire for all gifts and how to best utilize those gifts in a gathering of believers.

PROPHECY VS TONGUES

It’s probably helpful to establish some definition and understanding to what Paul has in mind when he uses these terms tongues and prophecies. Everyone might have a different picture in their minds for both of these. We all have different stories and experiences. And throughout the Bible there are some ways these words are used that differ from the way Paul is using them.

Let’s take prophecy for example. We tend to most immediately take upon our culture definition which includes a vague statement of some impending event, often doom. So to us, prophecy automatically falls into the category of future-telling. And it’s true, we see this a bit in the Bible with regard to those we may call the big “P” prophets. But that’s not actually the heart of what it means to be a prophet or to prophesy.

The reason we have these characters in the Bible who are called prophets is because they are the select ones who were given a word from God to communicate to people. You see this chapter after chapter in the phrase, “Thus saith the LORD”.

“The point is that God had communicated something to the prophets, and they were speaking directly for Him. 2 Peter 1:21 says, ‘Prophecy never had its origin in the human will, but prophets, though human, spoke from God as they were carried along by the Holy Spirit.’” This sometimes included foretelling as the prophets spoke the words of God or wrote them down, but it always was a forth-telling calling people back to what God had already spoken.

I should say there are no more big “P” prophets who are creating Scripture as they speak and write. We’re not going to add your musings to the Bible and hold them out as equal. What we’re going to do is judge and evaluate your words – test and approve them by the truth of God’s word.

So too Paul is carrying on a specific idea of what prophecy is and isn’t. This is what he writes to the Corinthians as a definition of prophecy; “Prophecy is a word given to me from God for another person and they understand it and their faith is built up and God is glorified.”

“3 One who prophesies strengthens others, encourages them, and comforts them. 4 A person who speaks in tongues is strengthened personally, but one who speaks a word of prophecy strengthens the entire church… If I bring you a revelation or some special knowledge or prophecy or teaching, that will be helpful. (1 Corinthians 14:3-4, 6, NLT).

“If all of you are prophesying, and unbelievers or people who don’t understand these things come into your meeting, they will be convicted of sin and judged by what you say. 25 As they listen, their secret thoughts will be exposed, and they will fall to their knees and worship God, declaring, “God is truly here among you.” (1 Corinthians 14:24-25, NLT)

By contrast speaking in tongues is a good and desirable gift, but it is, by enlarge, for the person speaking and not for those who may be listening. So Paul tells them essentially to speak in tongues privately and not in gatherings unless there is an interpreter so that people may understand and the church may be strengthened.

“16 For if you praise God only in the spirit, how can those who don’t understand you praise God along with you? How can they join you in giving thanks when they don’t understand what you are saying? 17 You will be giving thanks very well, but it won’t strengthen the people who hear you.” (1 Corinthians 14:16-17)

BUILD UP THE CHURCH

Prophecy may be understood and is used to strengthen, encourage, and comfort the body. Tongues appear to be gibberish and so are for the individual and should be done privately unless there be a translator. Because “everything that is done must strengthen all of you.”

This is in the context of a charge against the Corinthians because they believed they were mature and better than other people. They called themselves spirit people. They craved this ability to speak in some heavenly language directed at God so that others would see and they would be exalted in their eyes, they would be puffed up.

“When Christians worship God together, it’s possible for them to exercise their spiritual gifts in ways that do not build up the rest of the body. God has no desire for the church to be filled with exciting manifestations that glorify those with the gifts but fail to edify the church.”

Paul is saying love doesn’t puff up, the purpose of love is to build up. That is why we love. And a spiritual gift is an expression of love, it should strengthen the church. It should encourage. It should comfort.

“Earlier in the letter, Paul wrote that “love builds up” (1 Corinthians 8:1). In the context of 1 Corinthians 12–14, Paul’s famous words about love in chapter 13 reveal that love is what makes the difference between Christians whose gifts build up the body and those who are just “a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal” (1 Corinthians 13:1).”

“Since you are so eager to have the special abilities the Spirit gives, seek those that will strengthen the whole church”, (1 Corinthians 14:11) Paul says. You’re good at spiritual gifts (tongues) but you’re bad at following Jesus.

“37 If you… think you are spiritual, you should recognize what I am saying [to be true].” (1 Corinthians 14:37).

Desire the working of the spirit in you to love people. You and I are responsible to help our brothers and sisters in Christ grow.

PARTICIPATE IN PROPHECY

God is calling us to this.

He’s calling us to desire gifts that build up.

Here’s a question for you, how many minutes did you spend this week praying for the church? Did you spend even thirty seconds praying for me, praying for the elders, praying for the others who are in this room? If we were to get a transcript of your prayers, what would it say? What are you praying for?

“When you listen to someone pray, are you longing for what they are praying? Are you aching for God to work? Are you glorying in the God they praise?”

Here’s what Paul’s prayers are full of as he writes to the Ephesians, “15 For this reason, because I have heard of your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love toward all the saints, 16 I do not cease to give thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers, 17 that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, may give you the Spirit of wisdom and of revelation in the knowledge of him, 18 having the eyes of your hearts enlightened, that you may know what is the hope to which he has called you, what are the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints, 19 and what is the immeasurable greatness of his power toward us who believe…”

God would you give these people the Spirit of wisdom and revelation that your love might seek deep down into their bones, that lives may be changed and conformed into the likeness of King Jesus. That they might understand the hope to which you have called them. Leaving behind what once was and pressing on into the fullness of your presence.

If you would understand this desire of Paul’s for us, to strengthen the church through our love, if you would do this, if you would just remember – the Spirit of God would inhabit our lives and it will change the world. Why do we love? Why do we love – to build one another up.

“God is calling us not to be isolated, silent, encapsulated individuals in worship. Privately coming, privately hearing, privately going, with no one able to tell what we love and cherish and long for... God is calling us out of our cocoons of emotional isolation and invisible, inaudible, unshared responsiveness.”

“Edification comes not by amazement at miracles, but edification comes by the understanding of God.” Let us desire, let us seek the working of the Spirit in our lives to strengthen the church and build one another up in love.

Let’s just spend some time before we sing. The music team can come up and be playing. Just spend some time praying this passage from Ephesians 1 over each other, that God would give you, and you, and you His Spirit of wisdom and revelation to bring a word from the Lord that would strengthen, that would encourage, that would comfort, that would build up the faith in another person. That we would use our gifts and even those we may not have, because it’s not about the gift, as an expression of God’s love to build faith in another person.

Resources (*the views expressed within the following content are solely the author's and may not necessarily reflect the opinions and beliefs of Mountainside Church):

https://sermons.love/skip-heitzig/13971-skip-heitzig-1-corinthians-141-35.html

https://www.gotquestions.org/quench-Holy-Spirit.html

https://midtowndowntown.com/sermons/supernaturally-life-giving-words

https://midtowndowntown.com/sermons/supernaturally-life-giving-words-part-2

https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/should-you-earnestly-desire-to-prophesy

https://www.gotquestions.org/prophecy-prophesy.html

https://youtu.be/k4WKKDHOX_E?si=VK1QdqhGSI4Ckihs

The Way of Love | A More Excellent Way - 1 Corinthians 13 | June 2


SCRIPTURE

1 If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. 3 If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing.

4 Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant 5 or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; 6 it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. 7 Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

8 Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when the perfect comes, the partial will pass away. 11 When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways. 12 For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I have been fully known.

13 So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love.

INTRO

You may now kiss the bride!

Haha – Hey family.

Isn’t that where our minds go? Isn’t that what we’re used to with this chapter? Isn’t that where we have heard these words most often, hundreds of times, in a wedding ceremony rather than within an actual church context?

I suppose it isn’t so strange that couples who are declaring their love for one another would gravitate toward these words as they share their marriage vows. But I fear as a result of this usage, we may have lost sight of what’s really going on – of what’s really important. We have removed these words from their context. We have made these into nice words exchanged between an adoring bride and groom and in some ways removed the power that it is contained within them.

Don’t get me wrong, these are perfectly good words to share at a wedding. Husbands and wives should love each other in this way. And I do believe if you set out with purpose to take these words to heart you will have a better marriage. But that’s not really what they’re about.

And true, they are words of love that describe how God loves, in the way that He first sets the example. In the sense that we don’t even know what true love is were it not for God initiating love into the world. In the truth of how God loves completely, He doesn’t hold anything back from any of you.

And the reason many people focus on this reality as a description of God’s incredibly patient love for sinful people like us, is because of the particular word for love chosen by Paul which I’m sure you have heard before. And if you haven’t, the word in Greek is agape.

In Greek there are a few different words for love, but agape is the word most often chosen for the way God loves because it describes a self-sacrificing love. A love that pours itself out without expecting anything in return.

Jesus doesn’t only reserve that right of love for He and the Father, but challenges us to love in the same way. One time while eating a Sabbath dinner at the house of a ruler of the Pharisees, Jesus kind of spends the whole evening verbally assaulting the guests with truth, and He even says to the host, “When you give a dinner or a banquet, do not invite your friends or your brothers or your relatives or rich neighbors, lest they also invite you in return and you be repaid. 13 But when you give a feast, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind, 14 and you will be blessed, because they cannot repay you. For you will be repaid at the resurrection of the just.” (Luke 14:12-14, ESV)

Just like Paul, Jesus is confronting culture – the culture of reciprocity which says, if I do something nice for you, then you’ll feel obligated to do something nice for me. You’ll return the favor. You scratch my back, I’ll scratch yours. Dinners, even Sabbaths, were status jockeying opportunities. Jesus says don’t do that, instead show kindness to people who couldn’t possibly repay you. Love pours out without expecting anything in return.

God loves you because He promised that He would and not with the expectation that you would earn it. This is the love that calls people to God and salvation – a love they cannot return.

This story is directly followed by Jesus’ words to die to self, to lay down your life, to take up the cross yourself and give up everything you have, everything you hold dear. It is a call to die. Love is a call to die. And this is the way God has first loved us.

But it’s interesting, Paul never says to the Corinthians this is how God loves. He doesn’t say, let me describe love in the way that God shows it to you. He is communicating that to an extent, but it doesn’t seem to be the main point.

A MORE EXCELLENT WAY

What Paul does say is I will show you a more excellent way. At the end of chapter 12, which we read last week, Paul concludes his thought by writing, “31 But earnestly desire the higher gifts. And I will show you a still more excellent way.”

One way to interpret this is in an accusatory sense where Paul is saying you are desiring gifts you perceive to be higher and better than the next person so you can be exalted. Don’t do that, I will show you a better way to live. Your attitudes and behaviors are not how love acts or feels. None of those gifts or abilities or status symbols matter much if you’re putting yourself on display. If you look down to the center of your motivations and you’re there then you’ve got it all wrong, so pursue love first and here’s the excellent, self-sacrificing way of love.

This is arguably the climax of the letter. Paul has been building through all of his exhortations, and corrections, and teachings Paul has been building and now it is erupting and overflowing from the depths of his heart.

“1 If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. 3 If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing.” (1 Corinthians 13:1-3)

“They were boasting in men (3:21). They were puffed up, even in wrongdoing (5:1-2). They were unwilling to suffer long and bear all things and so were taking each other to court (6:1-8). They were insisting on their own way in eating meat that caused others to stumble (8:11-12). They were acting in “rude” or unseemly ways not wearing the customary head-coverings (11:1-16). They were insisting on their own way as they ate their own meal at the Lord’s Supper without any regard to others (11:21-22). They were jealous and envious as they compared their spiritual gifts and thought that some were needed and others were not (12:21-22).” Paul is holding the Corinthians up to the mirror of love, the standard of Jesus, and saying the way you have been acting is unacceptable.

Love doesn’t divide. Love dies.

LOVE IS PATIENT AND KIND

Love dies! To self. To Preference. To injustice.

I don’t think I’ve ever heard that at a wedding. But I’ve heard it a lot from Paul over this letter to the Corinthians. Laying aside spiritual preferences is still in view, worship is still in view, love is still the answer. Love dies.

“Love is patient and kind.”

The word is actually the same description of God in Exodus 34 where it says, “The Lord, the Lord, a God merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and abounding in steadfast love and faithfulness, 7 keeping steadfast love for thousands, forgiving iniquity and transgression and sin.” (Exodus 34:6-7, ESV)

Love is long suffering. That’s the word patient. And I’m pretty sure the actual literal translation is “long of nose” which is of course an idiom and not a physical description. Because to have a hot nose or red nose was to be angry, and if you had a long nose then those things took much longer to be present.

Love is patient. Love is long suffering.

What it doesn’t mean is love doesn’t get quickly frustrated when your day didn’t line up the way you thought it should have. It doesn’t mean you let minor inconveniences pass by without giving them a thought. This word is not situational or circumstantial. It is directed solely at people in the same way God forgives iniquity and sin done against Him over and over again. In the same manner God loves and forgives and bears your sin time after time in patient hope that you will repent and return to Him.

Longsuffering means opening yourself up to be wronged and wronged again and wronged again. Love doesn’t say I’ve had enough. “If two people, or two thousand people, are in a relationship of love, all will be hurt. And all will need to “suffer long” and endure and bear.” Being long-suffering means dying to the desire for an untroubled life.

Not only that. Not only an openness to being hurt again and again for loves’ sake, but also when not if – when you are hurt you repay injury with acts of good.

Love dies to self, accepting hurt, and responds for the spiritual good of the offending party.

I’ve often thought this way about our culture. We don’t really have enemies – not really. Maybe some people do, but not by in large. Even then, hurt most often comes from those we love. Who do you perceive hurt from? Don’t give up on them. Don’t repay evil for evil, harm for harm. How can you work for their spiritual good? What blessing can you pray over them?

Interesting tidbit, the whole eye for an eye tooth for a tooth law was to stop blood feuds by severely limiting ever increasing acts of revenge. We go a step further and repay evil with good. We suffer alongside our fellow sinners forgiving them much because of the great love and forgiveness we have been shown.

Love dies.

LOVE DOES NOT ENVY OR BOAST; IT IS NOT PROUD OR RUDE

“Love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude.”

There are a couple overarching themes throughout this list of what love is and isn’t. We just looked at how love is enduring. A little bit further on Paul writes, “Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.” Love is not fragile but endures the sin of people even when wronged.

The other main common thread of this self-sacrificing love is that it is humble. There are so many ways in which the opposite of love is not hate or indifference/apathy as you may have been told before, but pride. The opposite of love is pride because pride is selfishness that works for the good of yourself while love is invariably others-focused.

Love doesn’t say I want what you have or I wish you didn’t have that good thing. Love doesn’t say don’t you wish you had this good thing or point back to itself. Love takes delight in the honor of others. Love glories in the spiritual good of the people around you.

“The glory-loving, self-exalting, attention-seeking, whining, pouting, self-pitying me has to die. Love does not seek its own personal, private preference without reference to what may be good for other people. Love seeks its joy and its profit in the good of others, and not in private gratification.”

“The main category of what love does not do, what we must die to, is arrogance.“

We must pray, “O Lord, reveal and destroy the pride in our lives.”

I know there are the passages in Jeremiah and elsewhere, but I was reading in Samuel the other night, and when Saul is anointed king it says this strange thing, “As Saul turned and started to leave, God gave him a new heart…” (1 Samuel 10:9)

And so I pray, God will give me a new heart. Give us a new heart. Give us a heart that is solely directed in honor toward you. Give us a new heart that loves people on purpose. A heart that dies to self and exalts others.

That’s the heart of the phrase in Roman 12 that calls us to think of others more highly than ourselves. It is not telling to think less of yourself, although maybe in some ways that is true. We think too much of ourselves. But it’s not a call to dishonor yourself – to devalue you. You have been created with such value and purpose. You have been created in the image of God. To self-deprecate is to dishonor God’s image.

This is a call to lift others up to an even higher station. Love prioritizes other people.

Love dies.

LOVE DOES NOT INSIST ON ITS OWN WAY

“Love does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth.”

“It’s hard to not insist on our own way because it’s very hard to trust others. None of us knows the full extent of our selfishness, but we know it well enough to be on our guard against others.”

Let me say that again, “None of us knows the full extent of our selfishness, but we know it well enough to be on our guard against others.”

It is very hard to trust others, especially as we endure wrong time and time again, but even when no wrong has been done and no hurt has been perceived, it is still very hard to trust others. But trust we must – trust our hearts to one another no matter what happens, and do it time and time again.

I guess one way of putting it is that love risks. To love is to risk change, rejection, losing pieces of ourselves, abandonment, and more. Love requires the courage to risk it all for each other.

We don’t store up wrongs for the opportune time. You’re not waiting and hoping to catch the slip up of another so you can really let them have it the next time they feel wronged by you. “Oh yea, well do you know what you did Mr perfect? Not so perfect after all are we?”

What does that look like with our kids, when they do the same thing over and over again because they just can’t help it and their brains aren’t fully developed to be able to have even the slightest self control to not do the exact thing we’re telling them to stop doing while we’re telling them to stop it? Not that’s ever happened to me. I’ve heard about it though, it’s a friend of a friend kind of thing.

We don’t keep a list to hold their flaws against them. We recognize and show grace to those who are sinners just like us. “Not seeking our own way means dying to the dominance of our own preferences, dying to the need for no frustrations, dying to the desire for revenge.” We recognize and show grace to those who are sinners just like us.

Love rejoices in truth.

I heard an acquaintance of ours share this thought with regard to this passage, “Real love doesn’t celebrate sin and say at least they are being who they are. In our culture we want to believe that love means we are always accepting and always affirming and if you disagree that shows that you do not love me. That’s not love that’s patronizing indifference. Love wants better for people than sometimes we want even for ourselves.”

Many times the spiritual good we want for other people is not what they want for themselves. The most we could ever hope and want for another person is Jesus. What I want for you more than anything else is Jesus. And I know that despite the confessions that many if not all of us have made, you don’t really realize the fullness of what that means and what it will cost you. And that is still what I want for you. Some people, many people, probably most people in this world at this point and time don’t want Jesus. Because people outside the church tend to realize the cost more than people inside the church.

We show them Jesus in the way that we love. We show them a better way – a more excellent way.

LOVE IS THE REAL DEAL

Because love is the real deal.

Paul uses the imagery of a banging gong or crashing cymbal. This is something those in the Corinthian church would have immediately recognized. In the pagan temples they would attempt to awake their false gods to life by making a lot of noise. We see this with Elijah and the prophets of Baal. They cried aloud and the cut themselves and danced around banging on drums but no one answered. In the futility of their actions Elijah taunted them, “Cry aloud, for he is a god. Either he is musing, or he is relieving himself, or he is on a journey, or perhaps he is asleep and must be awakened.”

They were just making noise.

It’s not the real deal if you’re just making noise.

Paul is saying don’t mistake spiritual activity for spiritual maturity.

Love is humble and others directed. It’s not for show. It doesn’t just make noise. It’s the real deal.

The application for us in this passage, as is the main point of the Bible in some regards, is to hold our love up to this and realize how far we fall short. We need God to love like this – to love with the same self-sacrificing love that doesn’t consider ourself but pursues the good of others.

Have you ever been loved like that? If not, I’m sorry. I just want us to surround you and hold you in our arms and say I’m sorry we suck. If you have been loved like that, pay it forward – pay it forward to another.

God loves us out of our sin. God doesn’t shame or guilt us. God loves us out of our sin.

In Psalm 119 (NLT) the psalmist writes, “5 Oh, that my actions would consistently reflect your decrees! 6 Then I will not be ashamed when I compare my life with your commands…”

“I have chosen to be faithful; I have determined to live by your regulations. 31 I cling to your laws. Lord, don’t let me be put to shame!”

And again, “37 Turn my eyes from worthless things, and give me life through your word. 38 Reassure me of your promise, made to those who fear you. 39 Help me abandon my shameful ways; for your regulations are good. 40 I long to obey your commandments! Renew my life with your goodness.”

God loves us out of our sin, our guilt, our shame.

The highest calling of the Christian is that we would reflect that love into the world and see others changed by the deep, deep love of Jesus.

PRAYER

God, change our hearts. Give us new hearts that function properly.

Remove from within us these hearts of stone and give us new hearts that we might endure, that we might hope, that we might love.

Resources (*the views expressed within the following content are solely the author's and may not necessarily reflect the opinions and beliefs of Mountainside Church):

https://midtowndowntown.com/sermons/a-loving-community

https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/love-suffers-long

https://www.desiringgod.org/messages/a-call-to-love-and-to-death

https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/what-love-does-and-does-not-do

https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/lay-aside-the-weight-of-selfish-preferences

https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/reviews/1-corinthians-jonathan-edwards-charity-fruits/

https://www.amazon.com/Charity-Its-Fruits-Living-Light/dp/143352970X/?tag=thegospcoal-20

The Way of Love | Expressions of Love - 1 Corinthians 12 | May 26


SCRIPTURE

“1 Now concerning spiritual gifts, brothers, I do not want you to be uninformed. 2 You know that when you were pagans you were led astray to mute idols, however you were led. 3 Therefore I want you to understand that no one speaking in the Spirit of God ever says “Jesus is accursed!” and no one can say “Jesus is Lord” except in the Holy Spirit.

4 Now there are varieties of gifts, but the same Spirit; 5 and there are varieties of service, but the same Lord; 6 and there are varieties of activities, but it is the same God who empowers them all in everyone. 7 To each is given the manifestation of the Spirit for the common good. 8 For to one is given through the Spirit the utterance of wisdom, and to another the utterance of knowledge according to the same Spirit, 9 to another faith by the same Spirit, to another gifts of healing by the one Spirit, 10 to another the working of miracles, to another prophecy, to another the ability to distinguish between spirits, to another various kinds of tongues, to another the interpretation of tongues. 11 All these are empowered by one and the same Spirit, who apportions to each one individually as he wills.

12 For just as the body is one and has many members, and all the members of the body, though many, are one body, so it is with Christ. 13 For in one Spirit we were all baptized into one body—Jews or Greeks, slaves or free—and all were made to drink of one Spirit.

14 For the body does not consist of one member but of many. 15 If the foot should say, “Because I am not a hand, I do not belong to the body,” that would not make it any less a part of the body. 16 And if the ear should say, “Because I am not an eye, I do not belong to the body,” that would not make it any less a part of the body. 17 If the whole body were an eye, where would be the sense of hearing? If the whole body were an ear, where would be the sense of smell? 18 But as it is, God arranged the members in the body, each one of them, as he chose. 19 If all were a single member, where would the body be? 20 As it is, there are many parts, yet one body.

21 The eye cannot say to the hand, “I have no need of you,” nor again the head to the feet, “I have no need of you.” 22 On the contrary, the parts of the body that seem to be weaker are indispensable, 23 and on those parts of the body that we think less honorable we bestow the greater honor, and our unpresentable parts are treated with greater modesty, 24 which our more presentable parts do not require. But God has so composed the body, giving greater honor to the part that lacked it, 25 that there may be no division in the body, but that the members may have the same care for one another. 26 If one member suffers, all suffer together; if one member is honored, all rejoice together.

27 Now you are the body of Christ and individually members of it. 28 And God has appointed in the church first apostles, second prophets, third teachers, then miracles, then gifts of healing, helping, administrating, and various kinds of tongues. 29 Are all apostles? Are all prophets? Are all teachers? Do all work miracles? 30 Do all possess gifts of healing? Do all speak with tongues? Do all interpret? 31 But earnestly desire the higher gifts.

And I will show you a still more excellent way.”

INTRO

Hey family. Good morning. Good morning.

I am very excited for today!

I am excited for many reasons, the main one being that this is a teaching I really need. And I know if I need this word from God, then I’m probably not alone. Generally speaking, from week to week, I can usually point to a specific part of each teaching and know this is what God is speaking to me. Sometimes I know it before Sunday, and sometimes it takes me a while to figure it out. For example, it wasn’t until Wednesday of this past week, after meditating and processing verbally, that I realized what God was impressing upon my heart. This week, I’m coming in knowing yet still expecting God to surprise me.

I’m excited because I believe there are some revolutionary thoughts here that will change your life. That will change your perspective – change the way you think about gifts. And if it’s nothing new for you, at least I hope it will remind you, encourage you, and challenge you as you utilize your giftings of what it’s really about.

As we heard from the reading, this is a chapter about spiritual gifts. But I’m not going to talk about tongues or prophecy. I’m not going to analyze each gift listed and elucidate some sort of best practice for you. Because as you may have guessed by now, it’s not really about the gifts. Here, let me give you a definition for spiritual gifts so you can see what I mean.

But first…

BEGINNING BENEDICTION

Let me just say thank you.

I’m really proud of the way that each one of you has latched onto this idea of family. The way you are moving into loving and caring for one another more fully, more completely. The way we are moving toward the realization that the gift of salvation from God is not to a private faith we keep to ourselves, but a faith that works for the faith of others. I know there’s still more fullness to be realized, but we are on our way.

Thank you to those who faithfully serve this body. I want to especially thank those who are on the support team, who show up week after week before anyone else to lift heavy things, to snap tiny buttons on a projector screen that seems to be utterly too small, to carry chairs, and to put those chairs out into nice neat rows knowing that I’m probably going to completely change all that meticulous work.

In many ways being part of the support team is not exactly an honorable position and the work may seem to go by unnoticed as others linger in their conversation. But Paul says, “on those parts of the body that we think less honorable we bestow the greater honor”. So I just want to honor your hard work and dedication and say thank you. You are valuable. You are needed. Your work is part of the healthy functioning of this body.

Thank you, to each one of you who gives so generously of your finances to keep this little expression of the global Church going here in Boone. It is such a God-honoring thing to give of our material resources and say here God, this has always been Yours, do something great with it. And so I just want to speak that blessing over you, that God would increase your ability to be generous 100 fold. That you who have been entrusted with a lot or a little will be given much more. That your cups would overflow.

Thank you for your love. Thank you for your service. Thank you for your sacrifice.

“God loves people who love to give. 8 God can bless you with everything you need, and you will always have more than enough to do all kinds of good things for others… He will increase what you have, so you can give even more… 11 You will be blessed in every way, and you will be able to keep on being generous. Then many people will thank God… 12 What you are doing is much more than a service that supplies God's people with what they need. It is something that will make many others thank God… this service will bring honor and praise to God.” (2 Corinthians 9:7-13, CEV)

Thank you.

DEFINITION: SPIRITUAL GIFTS

Now back to spiritual gifts. I want to give you a definition. As is usually the case, it is most helpful to have some sort of agreement of what we are talking about. And when people hear the words spiritual gifts, I think there can be a vast array of images which pop into their minds. So let’s gain some clarity.

While we could just as easily decipher this definition from our passage here in 1 Corinthians, there are other passages about spiritual gifts throughout the Bible.

And 1 Peter 4:10, 11 says, ”10 Each of you has been blessed with one of God's many wonderful gifts to be used in the service of others. So use your gift well (CEV)… —in order that in everything God may be glorified through Jesus Christ. To him belong glory and dominion forever and ever. Amen (ESV).”

This is significant because it opens up spiritual gifts to extend beyond the far from exhaustive lists sprinkled throughout the Bible while at the same time really limiting what can be considered to be a spiritual gift. Operating out of your own natural ability, for example, which has indeed been given to you by God, is not to be considered a spiritual gift if used outside of this particular focus. So it broadens and at same time deepens what spiritual gifting can mean. It is much more than a talent.

“A spiritual gift is an ability given by the Holy Spirit to express our faith for the strengthening of someone else’s faith.”

“A spiritual gift is an expression of faith that aims to strengthen faith.”

A spiritual gift is an expression of the love of God for another person.

They are a vast diversity of things which have been given to each of you by the Spirit – it is not your own to boast in. It is exercised for the spiritual good of another – to serve the body. It points back to and honors the Spirit of God. And ultimately, it is an expression of love. Spiritual gifts are the way we love and serve the other members of the body.

This whole chapter, chapter 12 seems to be a reflection of and summarized in a way by what John says in his first letter, “11 Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. 12 No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God remains in us, and His love is perfected in us. 13 By this we know that we remain in Him and He in us, because He has given to us of His Spirit.”

God has given us His Spirit, to love one another well, and so make the invisible God manifest in this world.

“14 We have seen and testify that the Father has sent the Son to be the Savior of the world. 15 Whoever confesses that Jesus is the Son of God, God remains in him, and he in God. 16 We have come to know and have believed the love which God has for us. God is love, and the one who remains in love remains in God, and God remains in him” (1 John 4:11-16).

In our giftings, in the way that we love, we are confessing that Jesus is Lord of our lives, to the glory of the Father. A spiritual gift is a manifestation of the Spirit of God in the way that we love others. It is an expression of the love of God for another person.

YOU ARE GIFTED

You first have to understand that you have been gifted by God. Yes you. You have been apportioned by the Spirit to carry out God’s work of grace and love to bring about faith and sustain faith in other people. In all the ways that you can love, and care for, and support those in your family group or in this body, you have been gifted to do that. Those are your spiritual gifts. If there is a need in this family, and you think to yourself “I can probably do something to serve this person” you may be discovering one of your gifts. Yes, one of them. Because the truth is, whether you feel like it or not, you have each been given an abundance of gifts to glorify God and serve the people around you in love.

I know there are some of you who walk around with feelings of uselessness, thinking to yourself, “why am I here? What do I have to offer? I don’t see any value in what I have to give. I don’t even feel like I have anything to give!”

You’re wrong! You are wrong. Those are lies you have been speaking over yourself. If you are part of the body of Christ you are not useless but have been uniquely gifted to work for the good of the body and the faith of those outside the body. We need you.

Paul writes, “14 For the body does not consist of one member but of many. 15 If the foot should say, “Because I am not a hand, I do not belong to the body,” that would not make it any less a part of the body. 16 And if the ear should say, “Because I am not an eye, I do not belong to the body,” that would not make it any less a part of the body. 17 If the whole body were an eye, where would be the sense of hearing? If the whole body were an ear, where would be the sense of smell? 18 But as it is, God arranged the members in the body, each one of them, as he chose. 19 If all were a single member, where would the body be? 20 As it is, there are many parts, yet one body.” (1 Corinthians 12:14-20, ESV)

For the body of Christ to exist and function well, it depends on each and every member loving and serving in the particular way God has shaped you – in the unique manifestation of the Spirit within you. To say that you are useless dishonors the God who has given you value and purpose. To say that you are less gifted or less needed than another part of the body dishonors the body that relies on you to function.

You are essentially disagreeing with the Word of God to say that the body shouldn’t be a diverse array of cells all working together to function as a single organism, but rather it should only have a few members and I should be like a lot of others.

There are many members, but one body. That’s what it means to be a body. You are one member. You are gifted. You are a part of the body. You can’t be all of them. There are many members, but one body.

IT’S NOT ABOUT YOU

And your mistake is, it’s not about you.

It’s weird how in our feelings of uselessness as well as our feelings of pride we can end up making it all about ourselves. For just as Paul addresses those members of the body who would look at another and feel inadequate, he also addresses those who would look at another and feel self-sufficient.

“21 The eye cannot say to the hand, “I have no need of you,” nor again the head to the feet, “I have no need of you.” 22 On the contrary, the parts of the body that seem to be weaker are indispensable, 23 and on those parts of the body that we think less honorable we bestow the greater honor, and our unpresentable parts are treated with greater modesty, 24 which our more presentable parts do not require. But God has so composed the body, giving greater honor to the part that lacked it, 25 that there may be no division in the body, but that the members may have the same care for one another.” (1 Corinthians 12:21-25, ESV)

You can’t separate and do your own thing, then you’re not part of the body. The body can’t function if you’re out doing your own thing. Not only that, but you can’t truly function in the way that you were meant to either. You may think you’ve got it all covered, you know how to do this, you’re good on your own, but you need us. You may think you’re serving the Lord but you’re really just kicking against the goads (Acts 26:14).

That’s the phrase Jesus charged against Paul during his conversion encounter on the road to Damascus. The ascended, transcendent Jesus told him, it’s difficult to kick against the goads. It’s more difficult to fight against Jesus than to go with Him. When we are all trying to do our own things, we are in disunity, and the body suffers. It is painful for the body.

There’s this thing called alien hand syndrome. Anyone heard of it? If you have some time you can watch some videos of people who have it. It’s wild! It’s this weird phenomenon usually associated with brain injury in which one of a person's limbs, such as their left arm, will begin to move seemingly on its own volition. It’s also been referred to as “the stranger’s hand sign” because it no longer feels like it’s your hand. People who have it will find their one hand taking pens out of their other for no reason. In some cases, the rogue hand will actually start choking them and they can’t stop it.

You are part of the body. You can’t do it on your own. It’s actually harming the body as a whole and not just yourself, but yourself as well, to try to do it on your own. Being a Christian means that you have been saved to a family. Your salvation is not just for you, it’s for all of us.

You are dishonoring the God who made us to function in unity and not self-sufficiency.

IT’S ABOUT THE SPIRIT

It’s not about you. It’s about the Spirit of the living God empowering us, apportioning, and constructing this body and being manifested by the way that we function together.

What I think is important for us to understand in this definition of a spiritual gift as a manifestation of the Spirit of God in the way that we love – as an expression of the love of God for other people, is that the Spirit is the gifter as well as the object of the glory.

Whatever way you have been gifted, it is from the Lord so you have no opportunity to boast. And whatever you do with that gift, it is for the Lord, so you have no opportunity to boast.

At the beginning of this letter Paul wrote these words, “30 God has united you with Christ Jesus. For our benefit God made him to be wisdom itself. Christ made us right with God; he made us pure and holy, and he freed us from sin. 31 Therefore, as the Scriptures say, “If you want to boast, boast only about the Lord.” (1 Corinthians 1:30-31, ESV)

It’s about the Spirit.

And so, if the Spirit’s not in it, it’s not a spiritual gift. Many unbelievers have great abilities bestowed upon them by the God they don’t believe in. And although these are God-given they cannot be spiritual gifts because the Spirit is not being manifest through them.

“No matter what gifts we have, if we are not relying on God and not aiming to help others rely on Him then it’s not a spiritual gift.”

“It’s not spiritual because the Holy Spirit is not flowing through it from faith to faith.” If it’s not an act of your faith stirring up faith in another, then it may be a gift or talent that you have, but it’s not a spiritual gift. If it’s under your own power and authority or ability you’re not operating in your gifting.

It seems to me, this is why Paul was so adamant about boasting only in his weaknesses, because that’s when the Spirit was most on display.

In Paul’s follow up letter to the Corinthians, he goes on this long rant where he writes about a vision he had where he was called up to the third heaven as he says it and he writes, “5 That experience is worth boasting about, but I’m not going to do it. I will boast only about my weaknesses. 6 If I wanted to boast, I would be no fool in doing so, because I would be telling the truth. But I won’t do it, because I don’t want anyone to give me credit beyond what they can see in my life or hear in my message, 7 even though I have received such wonderful revelations from God. So to keep me from becoming proud, I was given a thorn in my flesh, a messenger from Satan to torment me and keep me from becoming proud.

8 Three different times I begged the Lord to take it away. 9 Each time he said, “My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness.” So now I am glad to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ can work through me. 10 That’s why I take pleasure in my weaknesses, and in the insults, hardships, persecutions, and troubles that I suffer for Christ. For when I am weak, then I am strong.” (2 Corinthians 12:5-10)

Which teaches us another lesson, Just because you’re not gifted in a certain way, such as to hospitality, or evangelism, or teaching, or to words of affirmation, or whatever doesn’t mean that God isn’t calling you to operate outside your gifting. We are called to step outside of our gift – because at the end of the day it’s not about the gift.

IT’S NOT ABOUT THE GIFT

It’s not about the gift.

I know we’ve probably all taken these gift assessments where it tells you what your top three giftings are. If I can remember correctly my top four, because there was a tie somewhere, were teaching, leadership, prophecy, and faith. Something like that. And while that may be helpful in some way, it’s ultimately placing a focus on the wrong thing. It’s not about the gift.

This is a problem I have with people who read the book “The Five Love Languages”. You know that book. Have you read that book? As you may imagine, I haven’t. I told a guy a couple weeks ago, I’m not going to read your book. That might have been rude. I don’t know.

Let me be clear. I don’t have a problem with the book “The Five Love Languages”. At least I don’t think I do. But here’s the problem I have. Some people will read that book and it will utterly change their life. And it will finally dawn on them. This is why I don’t feel loved by you, my love language is words of affirmation and your love language is works of service. Are those two of them?

And so the conclusion they take away from that revelation is, you need to show me love in the way that I receive it best. And while that is true, the focus should be inwardly focused and not outwardly focused. The application shouldn’t be you need to do this. It should be I need to learn to accept love in more ways. I need to see how you are loving me. I need to love you in ways that resonate most with you. It can’t be you need to do this for me. Which I believe is how the author perhaps intended the message to be received.

So too with gifts, we must not get hung up on naming our gifts. We can’t fit ourselves into a nice box and say this is who I am and so this is how I can contribute. God is going to call us outside of our gifting, and that’s okay. “The thing to get hung up on is are we doing what we can to strengthen the faith of the people around us?”

So our problem is not that we don’t know our gift, because it’s not about the gift. The problem is more often not desiring to strengthen the faith of those around us. Because a spiritual gift is an expression of the love of God for another person. It’s about the spiritual good of another.

We must desire to strengthen others' faith.

IT’S ABOUT LOVE: LOVING AND SERVING THE BODY

It’s about love. It’s about loving and serving the body.

I love this. In Romans 1:10-12 Paul writes, “10 One of the things I always pray for is the opportunity, God willing, to come at last to see you. 11 For I long to visit you so I can bring you some spiritual gift that will help you grow strong in the Lord. 12 When we get together, I want to encourage you in your faith, but I also want to be encouraged by yours.” (NLT)

Paul prays for the opportunity to visit Rome that he might bring them a spiritual gift. Not something physical to be shared or for him to help them figure out their giftings, but a gift of his to serve them with and to encourage faith within them. “I long to see you so that I may use my gifts to strengthen you.”

It’s not about the gift. It’s about loving and serving the body. It’s about being mutually encouraged by the manifestation of the Spirit in one another’s life so that our faith might be strengthened. Serve the body in love and you may discover your gifting probably in a more helpful way because then it is placed in its proper context.

It is about the manifestation of the Spirit for the common good of the body.

OUTRO

“4 Now there are varieties of gifts, but the same Spirit; 5 and there are varieties of service, but the same Lord; 6 and there are varieties of activities, but it is the same God who empowers them all in everyone. 7 To each is given the manifestation of the Spirit for the common good.” (1 Corinthians 12:4-7).

It is about the manifestation of the Spirit for the common good of the body. A Spiritual gift is an expression of God’s love in and through you for the faith of another.

It’s the way of love. It’s all about love.

In a couple weeks we’ll read the beginning of chapter 14, “1 Pursue love, and earnestly desire the spiritual gifts.” (1 Corinthians 14:1, ESV)

We pursue love. The object of our focus is on the Who of love and making the Spirit manifest in the way that we love. We earnestly desire spiritual gifts, not because we believe we are lacking when compared to another, not because we want to stand out over another, not because it’s about us, and not because it’s about the gift at all, but because it’s about God and making Him manifest in the way that we love and serve the body. And the result is unity.

“God has so composed the body… 25 that there may be no division in the body, but that the members may have the same care for one another. 26 If one member suffers, all suffer together; if one member is honored, all rejoice together.” (1 Corinthians 12:24-26, ESV)

We are so connected, like the cells and neurons in our own body, that we celebrate over each other when honor is bestowed, we don’t think why not me, we celebrate with one another. We don’t say when someone suffers, I’m glad that’s not me. It is us. We are one body. When you hurt I hurt. When you are shown honor I rejoice. We are one. We need each other.

As the music team comes up, here’s how I want to challenge you. If you’ll do it, I have cards, stamps, and envelopes. If words of affirmation are in your gifting that’s great. If they’re not, it doesn’t matter. Take some cards, some envelopes, some stamps and write a letter encouraging a member of the body. Strengthen their faith. Take them and write them this week to send out and strengthen our body.

Resources (*the views expressed within the following content are solely the author's and may not necessarily reflect the opinions and beliefs of Mountainside Church):

https://newspring.cc/articles/8-blessings-we-get-from-serving

https://www.gotquestions.org/kick-against-the-pricks.html

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3914666/

https://5lovelanguages.com/

https://www.desiringgod.org/messages/spiritual-gifts

https://www.desiringgod.org/messages/gifts-of-healings-and-workings-of-miracles

https://www.desiringgod.org/messages/living-in-the-spirit-and-in-the-body-for-the-common-good

https://www.desiringgod.org/messages/body-pains-feelings-of-uselessness

https://www.desiringgod.org/messages/body-pains-feelings-of-self-sufficiency

https://midtowndowntown.com/sermons/build-up-the-body-in-love

https://midtowndowntown.com/sermons/no-seriously-build-up-the-body-in-love

The Way of Love | Principles of Ordered Worship - 1 Corinthians 11 | May 19


ACT 2

Hey family. How are we doing?

We are in 1 Corinthians chapter 12. No? We’re not in chapter 12. I’m pretty sure that’s what I’m remembering.

Alright, we are still in chapter 11. There are three more principles we didn’t quite get to in our time together last week.

Last week, we just began this conversation, and we focused in on one principle in particular that Paul has established in his writings – there is beauty and honor in being a woman. It is honorable to be a woman. God created man and woman in His own image, which gives us all an immense amount of dignity, honor, value, and purpose. This is a worldview level defining moment which those who do not hold to a belief in a creator struggle with greatly. What is the purpose of life? God has imbued us, how’s that for a fancy word – God spoke purpose into us as he breathed into our nostrils the breath of life. You have such inherent dignity, value, honor, and purpose.

We are His children. We are His sons and daughters. Ladies, you are a daughter of God. And there is beauty and honor in being a woman.

A DIFFERENCE IN GENDERS

We’ve already hinted at several, if not all, of the other principles last Sunday. So let’s just get right into it and I’ll remind you as needed of what we’ve already talked about and supply cultural clarifications if necessary along the way.

Last week we read verse 11, “11 Nevertheless, in the Lord woman is not independent of man nor man of woman; 12 for as woman was made from man, so man is now born of woman. And all things are from God.”

There is beauty and honor in being a woman, and a part of that beauty and honor is that women are not men. Women are not just small men. There is a difference in the sexes. There is a distinctiveness of gender that should be celebrated and not eliminated.

Paul writes further on, “14 Does not nature itself teach you that if a man wears long hair it is a disgrace for him, 15 but if a woman has long hair, it is her glory? For her hair is given to her for a covering.”

This is another particular cultural custom that again is not too unfamiliar to us. In the vast majority of cases, in cultures around the world, and throughout history, women have had long hair and men have had shorter hair. There is science to support why this is (nature teaches us), that women most typically grow longer, thicker, fuller hair while men can go bald in their thirties – or earlier. It’s only really within the last century of our culture that men having long hair has become quite common. So it’s not culturally distinctive for us anymore, but we get it, we understand. Paul is saying they’re are foundational differences between men and women. Let’s not eliminate those – let’s celebrate.

Because we need each other. Men and women are inseparable and interdependent. We can’t step into God’s blessing without each other. We need one another. So the second principle Paul points back to as he engages the culture of the Corinthians is just that, there is a distinctiveness of gender that should be celebrated and not eliminated.

Before we move on, I think there is value in not just agreeing with this, although in our current cultural climate I do believe there is value there. But there’s more to consider. We don’t have these particular gender identifiers anymore, head coverings and hair length. But most of us, generally speaking, want to be identified as men or as women, whichever is appropriate. There are certain identifiers in the way that we dress, in the way that we act, in the things that we say, in the us that we show.

What I don’t want to do is start listing things off because there is a much larger conversation about modesty which Paul is engaging in particularly with the Corinthians as women who didn’t wear a head covering in Corinth had a good probability of being a prostitute and these Corinthian believers were being called back into their former ways of life and worship. We don’t have time for that discussion.

I do want to give you room to think and apply this principle to your life in its most basic form. What are some ways our cultural context uses to identify and differentiate genders? What are ways in your own life, whether influenced by culture or not, that you have used to identify yourself as a man or a woman? In the way that you act? In the things that you say? In your choices? In the way that you dress?

I want you to evaluate these gender distinctives by this criterion alone, is it God-honoring? Is it God-honoring? Not, does it make you feel like a man. Not, does it further the cause of women’s rights. Does it honor God? Does it point back to Him and communicate this is what life is all about? He is what life is all about. If it doesn’t honor God, we let go of our rights. We lay them down. We make no use of our liberty if it harms our neighbor and does not ultimately honor God.

Jesus taught us a very similar lesson that Paul has been repeating to us through this final half of Corinthians, “If any of you wants to be my follower, you must give up your own way, take up your cross, and follow me” (Matthew 16:24). We give up our own way.

So those are the first two principles down. Two more to go and these are highly related because God sets the example. Paul establishes God as the example in all of life. And that’s what these final two principles are about.

THE GOD OF ORDER

Let’s read those opening verses again, “1 Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ…”

We are all seeking to imitate Jesus.

“2 Now I commend you because you remember me in everything and maintain the traditions even as I delivered them to you. 3 But I want you to understand that the head of every man is Christ, the head of a wife is her husband, and the head of Christ is God.”

The head of every man is Christ.

This should not be new or controversial. We see this throughout the scriptures. We live our lives under the Lordship of Christ. We, as Christians, can’t only accept Jesus as savior without allowing Him to rule as our Lord. Just as love is an attitude that results in action, so also the crux of faith is a belief that motivates to action.

Paul will write at the beginning of chapter 12 in fact these chapters as literary units are so intertwined that a reading of the giftings and the interdependence of the body in chapter 12 could so meaningfully be interjected into what we’ve already talked about in our distinction and interdependence, but at the beginning of chapter 12 Paul writes, “I want you to understand that no one speaking in the Spirit of God ever says “Jesus is accursed!” and no one can say “Jesus is Lord” except in the Holy Spirit.

We don’t just declare with our mouth, but we demonstrate it with our lives, with the way that we live, that Jesus is King to the glory of God (Romans 10:9-10). James writes in his letter, “7 Submit yourselves therefore to God” (James 4:7). We submit ourselves to God.

“We submit ourselves to God, we acknowledge His Lordship in our lives. We give up our own desires, hopes, and wants and choose to follow Jesus wherever He leads.”

“15 He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn of all creation. 16 For by him all things were created, in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or rulers or authorities—all things were created through him and for him. 17 And he is before all things, and in him all things hold together. 18 And he is the head of the body, the church. He is the beginning, the firstborn from the dead, that in everything he might be preeminent. 19 For in him all the fullness of God was pleased to dwell, 20 and through him to reconcile to himself all things, whether on earth or in heaven, making peace by the blood of his cross” (Colossians 1:15-20)

Jesus is the head. He has authority over the church. He has authority in our lives. We submit to Him.

The statement that Paul writes that might be the most strange, other than “because of the angels” which is strange for different reasons. But the statement that “the head of Christ is God” is perplexing to us. I mean we agree with it, because we never really think about it. Even in our discussions of the surrounding verses we never really stop and say, hang on a minute…

If we did, we would probably realize how strange that statement is. How can the head of God be God?

If we go back to Genesis, Jesus was there too just as we read last week with regard to men and women, “26 Then God said, “Let us make mankind in our image… So God created mankind in his own image” (Genesis 1:26-27)

There is an equality and sameness that exists. I believe the trinitarian theological terminology is co-equal and co-eternal.

We see Jesus Himself confirm this over and over again, particularly in the gospel of John, since John’s purpose is to establish Jesus’ divine nature, and therefore the authority of His act on the cross and conquering of death to forgive sins and usher in new life.

John 1:1-3, “1 In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. 2 He was in the beginning with God. 3 All things were made through him, and without him was not anything made that was made.”

Jesus was there. Not only that, but Jesus is engaged with the Father in creation. There is relationship and there is order.

Later in John’s gospel, Jesus will just go right out and say, “27 My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me. 28 I give them eternal life, and they will never perish, and no one will snatch them out of my hand. 29 My Father, who has given them to me, is greater than all, and no one is able to snatch them out of the Father's hand. 30 I and the Father are one.” (John 10:27-30).

The Father and the Son are co-equal and co-eternal. There are no ways in which God the Father and God the Son are anything but equal, and in their case actually of the exact same nature. They are one God. How can God be the head of God?

But you know what, the more we went down this rabbit hole, we’d probably also realize it’s not so strange after all. Or maybe it’s still strange, but we’d perhaps realize that it’s been staring us in the face all along. Even in that passage in John 10 that we read, the first part of that passage says as “the Jews gathered around him and said to him, “How long will you keep us in suspense? If you are the Christ, tell us plainly.” 25 Jesus answered them, “I told you, and you do not believe. The works that I do in my Father's name bear witness about me, 26 but you do not believe because you are not among my sheep.” (John 10:24-26).

We don’t necessarily get it. We can’t always understand it. The whole idea of the trinity completely blows our minds. But we observe that there’s order within the Godhead, in that the persons of the trinity relate in ordered relationships. That’s the third principle for us. There’s order within the Godhead, in that the persons of the trinity relate in ordered relationships.

God is all about relationship, to such an extent that He Himself exists in relationship with Himself. The greatest call to life and freedom is that we can relate with Him, that He makes a way. God is relationship and that relationship is ordered.

Once again, we’ll read in a few chapters, “33 God is not a God of disorder but of peace.” God is not a God of confusion. He is ordered. In fact, that is perhaps the earliest identifier of who God is. In the beginning there was chaos and God spoke order into existence. And all of our sin, and selfishness, and foolish pride call us to de-create God’s created order.

There’s order within the Godhead, in that the persons of the trinity relate in ordered relationships.

AUTHORITY AND EQUALITY

The part that we have to wrestle with hard. If you were here last week, I mentioned that the argument in these verses that is given the most light is the least controversial part of what Paul is saying. Here’s what we have to wrestle with hard in our culture because we are programmed to believe contrary – you can have differentiation of authority in relationships without having inequality.

You can have differentiation of authority in relationships without having inferiority or superiority of dignity and value. Equality and authority are different conversations. Our culture can’t fathom the idea of that concept. To us equality means equal in every way, in every position, in every status. We already blur the lines between equity and equality. Why should we think we don’t also confuse authority and equality?

We do recognize that they are different things in the way that we live.

“When it comes to relationships, there's authority and submission. There's government. There's police force. There's authority in every corporation. There are bosses who hire people to work for them. That's an authority structure. There's authority within families. There's the same kind of authority and submission between God and humanity, and even between God and God-- Christ and God the Father.”

I hope that you see your children as equal in value, dignity, honor, and purpose as you. If you don’t see that equality then we might need to have another discussion. But that equality doesn’t reverse the ordered existence you have with them.

Even the Roman centurion confesses to the Lord that he is a man under authority. We are all under authority. That submission to authority does not detract from our equality as being made in the image of God.

You can have differentiation of authority in relationships without having inferiority or superiority of dignity and value.

Jesus again is the demonstration of this principle. God Himself is the demonstration of authority and submission while maintaining equality.

As the Jews tried all the harder to kill Him. [Because] not only was He breaking the Sabbath, but He was even calling God His own Father, making Himself equal with God. 19Jesus replied, “Truly, truly, I tell you, the Son can do nothing by Himself, unless He sees the Father doing it. For whatever the Father does, the Son also does. 20The Father loves the Son and shows Him all He does” (John 5:18-20).

Before His death, Jesus in the garden prayed, “Father, if you are willing, please take this cup of suffering away from me, nevertheless not my will, but yours be done” (Luke 22:42).

“When Jesus said, “Not my will, but yours be done,” He surrendered His own will to God’s, fully convinced that His Father knew what was best.”

“He was wholly submitted to His Father’s will. “My food,” He had said, “is to do the will of him who sent me and to finish his work” (John 4:34). “By myself I can do nothing,” explained Jesus, “for I seek not to please myself but him who sent me” (John 5:30).”

Jesus was wholly submitted to His Father’s will.

Paul writes of this many times. In Philippians chapter 2 he instructs us to, “5 have the same attitude that Christ Jesus had. 6 Though he was God, he did not think of equality with God as something to cling to. 7 Instead, he gave up his divine privileges; he took the humble position of a slave and was born as a human being. When he appeared in human form, 8 he humbled himself in obedience to God…” (Philippians 2:5-8).

This, unsurprisingly, fits so nicely within the larger conversation of freedom and love that is taking place. Because the application is the same. In love we give up our freedoms. In love of the Father Jesus yielded to the authority of the Father.

We cannot walk away from this teaching concluding that this makes Jesus somehow inferior to the Father but rather in His equality submissive to the Father.

“He is not talking about superiority or inferiority. He's not speaking about intelligence, or emotional intelligence, or intellect. He is not speaking about equality or inequality. He is not speaking about one's ability or inability.”

Towards the end of this very letter, Paul will write some further strange words, “28 When all things are subjected to him (being God the Father), then the Son himself will also be subjected to him who put all things in subjection under him, that God may be all in all.

“The Son of Man, Jesus is given all authority and power over the world (Daniel 7.14). But in the consummation of the ages, the Son himself [willingly] surrenders the Kingdom to and is subject to the Father.”

Because of all things, authority is given not taken. It is not earned. It is perhaps at times deserved. But it is certainly not taken. Authority is given by those who willingly submit.

You can have differentiation of authority in relationships without having inferiority or superiority of dignity and value.

HEAD

So those are our four principles that Paul has woven through these controversial verses. That there is beauty and honor in being a woman. That we should celebrate our differences because we need each other, men and women, we need you. He points to God and shows us equality and order. That in God there is a differentiation of authority without an inferiority of value. Therefore, when we are given authority we imitate Jesus and when we are under authority we imitate Jesus.

Overall we are to live our lives completely differently than the world around us. We don’t care about the things they care about. We don’t argue in the way that they argue. We can’t worship like the world.

Now, as we move into a discussion about the two interpretive challenges that I think are most prominent, we’re not going to enter into the realm of application. I’m not going to dictate how you should apply these verses to your life.

In verse 13, Paul says “13 Judge for yourselves”. This is not a black and white issue, judge for yourself. Don’t divide over this. In verse 16 he says, “16 If anyone is inclined to be contentious, we have no such practice, nor do the churches of God.”

Do not divide over these gray issues. It’s going to require a laying down of our rights, but God is bigger than our rights. God doesn’t move through the loudest He moves through prayer. He doesn't move through agendas, He moves through surrender.

So Paul is saying wherever you’re at, whatever church you find yourself in, be all there. There are no perfect churches. God didn’t say find the perfect church and commit. He said you commit, and you figure it out together, you live life together.

Jenny Allen has a short little teaching series through 1 Corinthians and one thing she said was, “One of my greatest hopes for this generation is that we would grow up together. That we would mature, that we would show each other preference, that we would care more about others than we care about ourselves and our desires. And I think that would stand out in this day and in this culture. If we would just share well, if we just took care of each other, it would scream that we believe in God and there is a better way to live.”

So with chapter 11 there are probably two main translation questions to ask. The first is how do we translate head?

The word is κεφαλή and its most simple meaning is head as in your physical head that is attached to the top of your body. If you look up this word in any Greek to English lexicon you will see this as being the most common translation, and indeed of all the usages in the Bible the most common meaning is the physical head of a person or animal. So why the confusion, why the argument. It is because when used metaphorically as in 1 Corinthians 11 the traditional interpretation is headship as authority.

And you’ll see in these lexicons that that is an alternate meaning as well as with regard to rivers extremity, terminus, or beginning. And here is the disagreement, because in one more modern lexicon attached to this translation of beginning is the idea of source. And so there has been a more recent push in history for the Greek word to mean the source of something. Which would change the traditional interpretation of Corinthians and other passages to say that Man is the source of Woman just as God is the source of Christ.

As you might imagine, scholars have debated this over the years and many papers and journal articles have been written defending both sides and rebutting and arguing ad nauseam. So as a result of these papers theologians set out to determine what does this word head actually mean. If it can mean source then there has to be evidence in ancient literature that would suggest a reader in Paul’s time would understand this to be a meaning.

In one examination some 2,300 ancient uses of κεφαλή were examined and guess what – I’m sure the majority of them meant a physical head. Just as you might expect. But here’s the part that matters. The investigation found seventeen uses from Greek translations of the Old Testament and fifteen uses from other ancient literature where κεφαλή is interpreted to mean “authority over” or “ruler”. They found no undisputed uses that could definitively mean “source”. The two disputed references refer to Zeus as being the first and last and the mouth of a river being the furthest point of a river.

This may not seem very compelling to you, but these theologians thought it compelling enough to write to the editors of the single lexicon that lists “source” as a possible interpretation and the editor of the lexicon wrote back saying their research was very definitive and should be updated to eliminate confusion.

I also think that if we were to translate this as source then there creates some problems theologically between the relationship of God the Father and God the Son. I do not rightly believe we can claim that the Father is the source of the Son except in the sense that Jesus was sent by the Father but that would cause confusion in the discussion between men and women. Nor can we assert that the Father is the beginning of the Son for in their equality it should be evident that God in all three persons is the uncreated creator. Jesus is in very nature God. And so, Jesus is rightly named as the source of all things as He is also repeatedly given the honor of all rule and authority.

Therefore, we should most readily believe that the early readers of Paul and Paul himself used the word “head” to communicate authority and in such a way that the responsibility of glory, honor, and shame flows up. It is a high calling to steward and not to oppressively rule. And we’ll need to wrestle with that and determine for ourselves what is right.

WIFE vs WOMAN

The second translation issue is perhaps less controversial but does influence the meaning of our previous discussion just as it is influenced by what we’ve already talked about. And that is whether these verses are talking about men and women or husbands and wives. You may have noticed that in the version I’ve been ready the interpreters have decided to translate these words as husband and wife.

It is confusing because the first time the word “man” appears Paul uses a different word than the second time. So when He writes that “the head of every man is Christ” he is most definitely referring to men in general, and I would argue mankind as a whole. We are all under the authority of Christ, men and women, even if Paul is specifically setting up an ordered argument about men.

The second word Paul uses does also mean man, but when it is used in tandem with the word he chooses for woman the meaning is typically reflected as husband and wife. Not that there are no instances where they are used together to mean men and women, but it is often understood in their use together to mean husband and wife.

And this is significant for why Paul uses two different words and what he is trying to communicate in his argument. And is significant for our previous discussion about head vs. source, because if we were to favor an interpretation of source then these words have to mean men and women in general and not husband and wife specifically. But these words used together would most likely be understood to mean husband and wife and so source is again an unlikely translation choice. But what is most likely is that Paul is communicating very similar ideas to those he writes again to the Ephesians. There is consistency in his teaching to the various churches he ministers to.

OUTRO

There are of course more interpretive challenges to this passage. And I never even tried to address the “because of the angels” phrase for perhaps obvious reasons.

Wherever you land, and however this is applied, Paul is continuing to do the same thing he’s been doing and the same thing we’ll see him do in chapter 12 and that is tell us to not be “puffed up” one over the other. Even in his use of authority he never means superiority. But rather follow in his example as he follows in the example of Christ. And above all love.

“9 Don’t just pretend to love others. Really love them. Hate what is wrong. Hold tightly to what is good. 10 Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other. 11 Never be lazy, but work hard and serve the Lord enthusiastically. 12 Rejoice in our confident hope. Be patient in trouble, and keep on praying. 13 When God’s people are in need, be ready to help them. Always be eager to practice hospitality.

14 Bless those who persecute you. Don’t curse them; pray that God will bless them. 15 Be happy with those who are happy, and weep with those who weep. 16 Live in harmony with each other. Don’t be too proud to enjoy the company of ordinary people. And don’t think you know it all!

17 Never pay back evil with more evil. Do things in such a way that everyone can see you are honorable. 18 Do all that you can to live in peace with everyone.” (Romans 12:9-18).

Resources (*the views expressed within the following content are solely the author's and may not necessarily reflect the opinions and beliefs of Mountainside Church):

https://midtowndowntown.com/sermons/haircuts-and-head-coverings

https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/head-coverings-1-corinthians-11/

https://au.thegospelcoalition.org/article/head-to-head-about-1-corinthians-11/

https://www.gotquestions.org/because-of-the-angels.html

http://skipheitzig.com/teachings_view.asp?ServiceID=4733&q=high

https://irregularideation.blog/2018/09/01/the-unveiled-truth-about-1-corinthians-111-16/

https://www.ligonier.org/learn/devotionals/the-interdependence-of-man-and-woman

https://abundantsprings.church/blog/how-does-the-bible-say-men-and-women-should-treat-each-other

https://proverbs31.org/read/devotions/full-post/2023/06/16/redefined-as-a-daughter-of-god

https://www.christianity.com/wiki/god/what-does-it-mean-to-submit-ourselves-to-god.html#:~:text=Submitting%20ourselves%20to%20God%20means%20that%20we%20must%20be%20willing,(Luke%209%3A23)

https://www.gotquestions.org/not-my-will-but-yours-be-done.html

https://www.waynegrudem.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/does-kephale-mean-head-or-authority-over.pdf

The Way of Love | Beauty and Honor - 1 Corinthians 11 | May 12


Prayer

Hey family. Good morning. Good morning.

We’re going to get right into it, but before we do, let’s pray.

Father, we come in great need of You. We need you God.

Your word says that you resist the proud. You set yourself against the proud. But you give grace upon grace to the humble. And so Lord, we humble ourselves. We don’t want to set ourselves in opposition to you. We don’t want to stand over your Word with some false authority, but we want to sit under the authority of Your word. We want to be mastered by it.

We let go of our sin and foolish pride that your Spirit might change our hearts. By the power of your Spirit, by the truth of Your word, change us O Lord.

We don’t want to find ourselves in the same place as the Corinthians. We don’t want to be the cause of division. We don’t want to cause more harm than good. We want our gatherings to be filled with life and love. So help us Father.

We need You. May Your will be done in our lives. May you be glorified in our love.

In Jesus’ mighty name – Amen.

INTRO

Today is going to be a tough day. There’s just no getting around it.

This is one of those times in Scripture where there are just some things that are difficult to understand completely. Paul’s going to address several cultural items that might seem strange to us. He’s going to set up principles to point back to as he engages culture. Paul makes strange statements, like “because of the angels”, which some people have suggested interpretations for, but ultimately everyone kind of admits that this is the most confusing passage in all of Paul’s writings and no one really knows what it means.

It’s difficult because it is also a passage that has been used to justify all manners of abuse. And at the same time we can’t just change or ignore what Paul says because of this misuse or because we don’t like it. There’s a lot of baggage that comes with passages like these and it is so very hard to separate ourselves from this baggage.

It’s difficult because we in this room disagree with how these passages should be interpreted and applied. And while we love each other deeply, this is one of those topics that has with it the added weight of charged emotion.

We can’t avoid it either. Oh how I wish we could. But we are here. And what the last several months have taught me is that we can’t avoid what is difficult because it is hard. We must embrace what is difficult because that is how we grow.

I have mentioned how these last chapters form a repetition of literary units. So it is so tempting to group these three passages together and skip what is difficult for the sake of the greater lesson that Paul is trying to teach about the Way of Love. And maybe we should.

But we must remind ourselves that this is the Word of God. And all Scripture is good and for our good—even the parts we find uncomfortable. “We shouldn’t ignore or find a hermeneutical escape hatch for difficult passages, but instead humbly seek their true meaning and then joyfully submit to them.”

I will say that the argument that is given the most light within the church is probably the least controversial part of this passage, but we’re going to talk about all of it. And here’s how we’re going to do it; I am going to start with four principles that Paul repeats and upholds throughout his writings. These are principles that we should find as common ground, as a sure footing even though at least one of them is very counter to our culture, well more than one of them, but there’s one in particular that we have to wrestle with hard.

Then, after these principles, I will work through some of the more contentious parts and give interpretive reasons for where I land. All I ask is that we seek understanding from God’s word with humility. If ever we start with what we want the Bible to say or make a statement such as, “I could never believe in a God who would say or do that”, then we’re already setting ourselves up for disaster. So I pray we seek the Lord together in humility today and even in the way we disagree that Jesus would shine through. What a testament that would be to our world today which divides over everything.

BACKGROUND

But first, let me just remind you of where we’ve come from and what’s going on as we near the end of this incredible letter.

Chapter 8 begins a discussion of Christian liberty regarding food sacrificed to idols, and as we transition from the Who of Love to the Way of Love, we’ll see this conversation develop into a larger conversation about worship. The balance between freedom, the unchanging demands of God’s moral law, and concern for our neighbor recurs throughout each of these chapters.

So there’s a building that’s taking place. Paul is leading us somewhere. There’s a goal in mind. It’s not just a bunch of random questions or concerns he’s addressing. He’s got a point in mind that is woven through these chapters. When we get to chapter 14, he’ll start off by writing, “follow the way of love.”

So as we have come through these various, potentially discordant subject matters we are arriving at a place to say what’s the use if we don’t love. That is what Jesus said would differentiate us in this world, how people would know we are His. Love is the mark of the true disciple. Jesus said, “35 By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another” (John 13:35). And Paul will write toward the end of this chapter, “16 If anyone is inclined to be contentious, we have no such practice, nor do the churches of God.” We have no desire to divide, but a strong desire to love. So as we commune, as we worship, as we utilize our gifts, as we pursue Jesus for each other, we must love or else none of it matters.

THE HONOR OF BEING A WOMAN

With all that stored up in our hearts, here are the first few verses of 1 Corinthians chapter 11. “Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ.”

This is a very important verse to begin with. Some may say that it rightly belongs with the section we finished last week. And in some regards maybe it does provide a nice conclusion to what we’ve been talking about. After all, the chapters and verse numbers in our modern Bibles don’t exist in the original languages. So, at times, they may seem arbitrary. But maybe we can believe that just as God inspired the original authors to write these words of life, He can also guide and direct how these words are delineated with chapters and numbers.

And here is a very important and very famous verse of Paul’s tucked amongst some of the more confusing ones. “Paul has been speaking about the fact that he willingly gave up certain privileges that he had so that he might share the gospel to different people groups. And so he used himself as an example of showing love, so that, though I have the right to practice certain things, I withhold from that. And so he says, ‘Imitate me, as I also imitate Christ.’”

He’s pointing back to his calling as an apostle and saying follow me–do as I do. “9 It seems to me that God has put us apostles on display at the end of the procession, like those condemned to die in the arena. We have been made a spectacle to the whole universe, to angels as well as to human beings. 10 We are fools for Christ, but you are so wise in Christ! We are weak, but you are strong! You are honored, we are dishonored! 11 To this very hour we go hungry and thirsty, we are in rags, we are brutally treated, we are homeless. 12 We work hard with our own hands. When we are cursed, we bless; when we are persecuted, we endure it; 13 when we are slandered, we answer kindly. We have become the scum of the earth, the garbage of the world—right up to this moment” (1 Corinthians 4:9-13).

Those are words that Paul wrote all the way back in chapter four and it seems as though he hasn’t strayed too far from the point seven chapters later. For all of the status, and honor, and glory that you are after. We are cursed, and persecuted, and dishonored–and we endure it with joy! I don’t seek my own good, but the good of others. I don’t lift myself up to positions of authority, but encourage and uphold others. And I want you to follow me in that calling. I want you to imitate this same style of life.

Let’s keep reading, “2 Now I commend you because you remember me in everything and maintain the traditions even as I delivered them to you. 3 But I want you to understand that the head of every man is Christ, the head of a wife is her husband, and the head of Christ is God. 4 Every man who prays or prophesies with his head covered dishonors his head, 5 but every wife who prays or prophesies with her head uncovered dishonors her head, since it is the same as if her head were shaven. 6 For if a wife will not cover her head, then she should cut her hair short. But since it is disgraceful for a wife to cut off her hair or shave her head, let her cover her head.”

So, there’s a lot to unpack in these five verses. There’s a lot of cultural things going on, some we know, some we don’t. What is of utmost importance for us to understand first, and what Paul believes wholeheartedly, is that there is beauty and honor to be recognized as a woman. Being a woman is not something you should be ashamed of or a wrong to be corrected. It is honorable to be a woman.

“Men and women are equal before God. We are created in the image of God. It's not like man is in the image of God, and then woman came later on, and she is not. The Bible says "God created man in His image; in the image of God created He him; male and female He created them." So there was an equality in Genesis 1, all the way from the beginning.”

What Paul is doing, is something he’s been doing this whole time, he’s writing against culture and simultaneously he’s creating and upholding culture. The problem for us is that there were a lot of cultures in Corinth. Corinth we talked about a bit as being the Vegas of the old world, but on steroids. It was very hedonistic in the sense that there were lots of opportunities and very little restrictions.

Some of us heard Sean MDowell speak recently and he shared the illustration of speaking with youth who grew up in the Church, were from Christian families, and went to Christian school. He asked them their definition of freedom. And their response was that freedom was to be unhindered in doing whatever you want–being unchecked in your pursuits. And as he pressed into this question with these youth from Christian homes, he discovered that in the way they viewed freedom the only thing that God brought to the equation was consequences. Freedom is still doing whatever you want, but now if we add God we have consequences. Corinth culture was full of freedom.

Of course there was also Greek culture, Roman culture, Jewish culture, and others. So there were a lot of mores which Paul certainly had in his mind, which the Corinthians understood, and we don’t as much.

This whole idea of head coverings is one, where we can make some guesses as to what the distinctive was, because we have some modern references but we don’t really know for sure. What we can piece together is that a way that a woman would identify herself as a woman, especially as a married woman, was by wearing some sort of veil or head covering. It was a distinguishing feature to say I am a woman. And Paul is upholding this distinctive, why?

There are Greek and Roman cultural practices and historical events going on that perhaps Paul had in mind, but the most obvious reason is because of what we already know about Corinth. Corinth was a huge city set amongst hills. On one particular hill was a very large temple to aphrodite. Every evening the thousand or so prostitutes would process down the hill into the city to sell themselves and the only women that did not wear a veil or a head covering were typically prostitutes.

The Corinthians, we know, were already struggling to separate themselves from the culture they lived in. In their churches, there was a bit too much Corinth and a bit too little Christ-likeness. So there’s a tendency in the culture which results in confusion in the worship. Again, Paul is writing against culture. He’s clarifying worship.

There are these two ways a woman could identify herself. Paul is saying you don’t need to shave your head and look like a man, you don’t have to hide or be ashamed of your womanhood, in fact, that would be to your detriment, “15 [for] if a woman has long hair, it is her glory? For her hair is given to her for a covering.”

It is glorious to be a woman. You don’t have to hide that aspect of your identity or be ashamed of it. Glory in it. You have so much more honor and value than to be used as an object of pleasure and desire.

Let’s skip down a few verses to verse 11, “11 Nevertheless, in the Lord woman is not independent of man nor man of woman; 12 for as woman was made from man, so man is now born of woman. And all things are from God.”

This is a very important balancing point for Paul as we’ll see a little later, because the foundation of his discussion through this chapter is on equality. This will become much more evident as we focus in on God’s ordered existence. In the same way that God the Father and Jesus are equal, so too are men and women. We are not independent of one another. We need each other. There is, rather, an interdependence that exists across the genders and this distinctiveness should be celebrated and not eliminated. Men and women are inseparable and interdependent. We can’t step into God’s blessing without each other. We need one another.

John Chrysostom was the Archbishop of Constantinople in the fourth or fifth century and a father of the early Church. He wrote these words., “In the Lord woman is not independent of man, nor is man independent of woman. . . . Each one of the two is the cause of the other, God being the cause of all.”

We are all made in the image of God and given an inherent dignity, purpose, value and honor. Men and women are united and equal in Christ. Paul wrote to the church in Galatia, “26 [we] are all children of God through faith in Christ Jesus. 27 [We] have been united with Christ in baptism [and] have put on Christ, like putting on new clothes. 28 There is no longer Jew or Gentile, slave or free, male and female. For you are all one in Christ Jesus. 29 And now that you belong to Christ, you are [His] true children” (Galatians 3:25-29).

Paul’s not saying a new thing here. He’s not saying there’s no distinction between men and women. In the same way he’s not telling slaves to walk up to their masters and say we’re the same. What he is doing is repeating what we’ve already read in 1 Corinthians chapter nine, when he says, “I have become all things to all people, that by all means I might save some. 23 I do it all for the sake of the gospel, that I may share with them in its blessings” (1 Corinthians 9:22-23).

We are here together as men and women, different but united in our shared identity as in Christ. We are His sons and daughters. We are His children. Women, you are the daughters of the most high God.

This past week, we read with the kids the story of the woman who had suffered from bleeding for 12 years. As the crowds pressed in around Jesus, in her desperation, she reached out in faith and touched the hem of His robes and was healed.

Jesus stopped and turned saying who touched me. Well, lots of people were touching Jesus. But Jesus knew that there was power in this touch. He healed this woman in an instant because of her faith. And when she bravely stepped forward He said, “Daughter, your faith has made you well; go in peace” (Luke 8:48).

This woman was more than sick. She was an outcast among the people. She probably wasn’t even supposed to be in that crowd according to the law. But in one act, He elevated her position and restored her dignity. He said I see you. You are valuable. You are not alone. You are not isolated. You are not a label. You are mine. You are a daughter of God.

There is beauty and honor to be recognized as a woman.

INTERMISSION

Can we just stop?

I’m going to have to apologize.

As much as I hate to do it, and I don’t want to disappoint you, but I’m afraid we’re going to have to put a pause on the rest of chapter 11 and save it until next week. We’ll just have to throw a “to be continued…” on the rest of our time. Don’t you just hate that? That’s why I could never get into the show “Lost”. At the end of every episode you were left with 42 new questions and no answers.

So, sorry. You’re going to have to come back to find out about the other three principles and the interpretive problems to overcome in these verses, because we’re going to stop there for the day and practice the principle that Paul has called us to by honoring our women and saying we see you, we lift you up as women that have been created in the image of God, we value you, we love you, and we are so blessed that you are here with us.

Resources (*the views expressed within the following content are solely the author's and may not necessarily reflect the opinions and beliefs of Mountainside Church):

https://midtowndowntown.com/sermons/haircuts-and-head-coverings

https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/head-coverings-1-corinthians-11/

https://au.thegospelcoalition.org/article/head-to-head-about-1-corinthians-11/

https://www.gotquestions.org/because-of-the-angels.html

http://skipheitzig.com/teachings_view.asp?ServiceID=4733&q=high

https://irregularideation.blog/2018/09/01/the-unveiled-truth-about-1-corinthians-111-16/

https://www.ligonier.org/learn/devotionals/the-interdependence-of-man-and-woman

https://abundantsprings.church/blog/how-does-the-bible-say-men-and-women-should-treat-each-other

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The Who of Love | The Confessions of Communion - 1 Corinthians 10 | May 5


Intro

Hey family! How are we all doing?

Today, we are in 1 Corinthians chapter 10. And we’re going to be wrapping up the first of this three part series centered around love. We are finishing up a focus on the Who of love. The next three chapters will be concerning the Way of love. And the three following that will focus in on the Why of Love.

And there is a reason we have grouped these chapters in sets of three. It is because each set forms a literary unit to address specific concerns, all three of which ultimately bring Paul back to the idea or directive of love. We see it very clearly in chapters eight to ten as Paul begins chapter eight by addressing food sacrificed to idols and we’ll see him conclude chapter ten in much the same way with some words about food sacrificed to idols.

In Biblical literature what something like this typically points to is the use of a chiasm. Which is when an idea is communicated one way and then restated again in the reverse order sometimes in the immediately next verse, sometimes chapters later. And the Bible is absolutely full of chiasms. If we look at Genesis chapter nine verse six we see an obvious example, “Whoever sheds the blood of man, by man shall his blood be shed, for God made man in his own image.”

Another example would be Jesus’ words in Matthew chapter six, “24 No one can serve two masters, for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and money.”

I wouldn't be surprised if that’s what’s happening in this literary unit as well. In fact, I very nearly scrapped everything I had planned on talking about and just finished off this theologically packed letter with three final teachings, one on each literary unit to get to the main point that Paul is trying to make through each set. That’s how important this is.

Quite often, when a chiasm occurs, especially in longer chunks of text, you can trace the repeated ideas back to their common center and find the main point, the main principle that is trying to be communicated. This is because chiasm comes from a greek letter that is identical to our letter X. We trace the wings back to the center and find what matters most. If we do that with these passages we find that Paul is using the subject of meat sacrificed to idols to point to a larger truth.

If this were a Chiasm, the very center would be this paragraph found in chapter 9, “19 For though I am free from all, I have made myself a servant to all, that I might win more of them. 20 To the Jews I became as a Jew, in order to win Jews. To those under the law I became as one under the law (though not being myself under the law) that I might win those under the law. 21 To those outside the law I became as one outside the law (not being outside the law of God but under the law of Christ) that I might win those outside the law. 22 To the weak I became weak, that I might win the weak. I have become all things to all people, that by all means I might save some. 23 I do it all for the sake of the gospel, that I may share with them in its blessings.”

We already talked quite a bit about this verse last week, but the important thing to note for Paul, the point he is trying to make throughout these three chapters, is that we lay down ourselves, our desires, our preferences for the sake of our brothers in Christ. And as we’ll see today as he continues his discussion and gets distracted along the way, as Paul turns his attention to the “love feast” of Christ, what we’ll see is how much greater it is to be together as one body than make use of the freedom that is ours in Christ and thus hurt or alienate our brother or sister. Jesus is better than all other so-called gods. And we celebrate Him better when we are together.

A RANT ABOUT COMMUNION

Now, what Paul is primarily going to do in chapter 10 is turn his attention to what happens when believers gather to eat together, when they commune around the table. And in some ways he’s almost utilizing the framework of the feast of the tabernacle that we see in Deuteronomy.

Deuteronomy 14:22-29 says, “22 “You shall tithe all the yield of your seed that comes from the field year by year. 23 And before the Lord your God, in the place that he will choose, to make his name dwell there, you shall eat the tithe of your grain, of your wine, and of your oil, and the firstborn of your herd and flock, that you may learn to fear the Lord your God always. 24 And if the way is too long for you, so that you are not able to carry the tithe, when the Lord your God blesses you, because the place is too far from you, which the Lord your God chooses, to set his name there, 25 then you shall turn it into money and bind up the money in your hand and go to the place that the Lord your God chooses 26 and spend the money for whatever you desire—oxen or sheep or wine or strong drink, whatever your appetite craves. And you shall eat there before the Lord your God and rejoice, you and your household. 27 And you shall not neglect the Levite who is within your towns, for he has no portion or inheritance with you. 28 At the end of every three years you shall bring out all the tithe of your produce in the same year and lay it up within your towns. 29 And the Levite, because he has no portion or inheritance with you, and the sojourner, the fatherless, and the widow, who are within your towns, shall come and eat and be filled, that the Lord your God may bless you in all the work of your hands that you do.”

Communion, the Lord’s Supper, references several important feasts throughout the Bible from the Garden, to Passover, and even Revelation, while at the same time it maintains its own distinct purpose and character. But here we see Deuteronomy making some very clear influences on how the early Church practiced communion. It was more than a meal, it was something special as a religious observance and act of devotion. Communion wasn’t a meal in and of itself, but the practice seemed to have been integrated during a meal that included meat and alcohol, borrowing from Deuteronomy and the traditions of Passover. It was very much a mixed bag of status and authority. There were the well-to-do as well as the poor. In fact, in Corinth the wealthier seemed to be using it as an opportunity to party and get drunk, which Paul frowns upon. Overall, it was an opportunity to rejoice before the Lord in their feasting. It was a celebration.

So then, what 1 Corinthians 10 is about, in essence, is the way the Corinthians had overestimated the power of the Lord's Supper as sacramental food, while at the same time underestimating the purpose of the Lord's Supper as spiritual fellowship with Christ and their brothers and sisters in Christ.

“In other words, they saw eating the bread and drinking the cup as a kind of sacramental antidote to any ill effects that might come from tasting the poison of idolatry. And so they overestimated the power of the Lord's Supper.

And they failed to see that the purpose of eating the bread and drinking the cup was to share in the life of Christ and to fellowship with him as one body. And so they underestimated the purpose of the Lord's Supper, and thus its true power in the fight against idolatry and sin.”

Chapter 10 starts out, “1 For I do not want you to be unaware, brothers, that our fathers were all under the cloud, and all passed through the sea, 2 and all were baptized into Moses in the cloud and in the sea, 3 and all ate the same spiritual food, 4 and all drank the same spiritual drink. For they drank from the spiritual Rock that followed them, and the Rock was Christ. 5 Nevertheless, with most of them God was not pleased, for they were overthrown in the wilderness. 6 Now these things took place as examples for us, that we might not desire evil as they did.”

In one regard, there is no definitive power in the bread or in the cup, or in the act of eating the metaphorical flesh of Christ or drinking the metaphorical blood of Christ. You could do this as often as you like, three times a day or even more, and you could still continue to choose that which is displeasing to God–to choose things that are not God.

Now, there would be consequences to be sure. In chapter 11 Paul will write, “27 Whoever, therefore, eats the bread or drinks the cup of the Lord in an unworthy manner will be guilty concerning the body and blood of the Lord. 28 Let a person examine himself, then, and so eat of the bread and drink of the cup. 29 For anyone who eats and drinks without discerning the body eats and drinks judgment on himself. 30 That is why many of you are weak and ill, and some have died.” It is of utmost importance to take seriously what we are doing each week.

Hebrews 11 tells us that pleasing God is a product of a faith that seeks the Lord and produces in itself righteousness. Acts of religious devotion such as participating in the Lord’s supper, participating in communion, participating in this “love feast” are only as useful as the heart that would set out to seek the Lord rather than remedy a life of choosing other things.

This is where Paul begins to marry these two ideas of Christian feasting with meat sacrificed to idols and draw comparisons of how the Corinthians were asking these questions to justify going to worldly parties to conduct business where there would be outward idolatry, but their own feasts of fellowship demonstrate their inward idolatrous nature, that they are breaking the laws of love in the way they treat their fellow believers.

“Martin Luther once said the fundamental problem in law-breaking is always idolatry. In other words, we never break the other commandments without first breaking the commandment against idolatry. (A Treatise on Good Works parts X, XI)”

The commandment we all break first is. “You shall have no other gods.” Jesus tells us that the greatest commandment is to love the Lord God with ALL of our heart, ALL of our strength, ALL of our minds (Luke 10:27). All of our sin ultimately stems from not loving God with ALL. We look to other things for pleasure, for joy, for satisfaction.

IDOLATRY GETS IN THE WAY

“The human condition is driven by idolatry.”

We replace the Who of love with other things. When those things become what we love we transgress and fall into sin, into idolatry. We trade the ocean of God with a muddy puddle as Bri shared with us a few weeks ago. I wonder if at some point in your childhood you were unconsciously influenced by someone paraphrasing a quote from C.S. Lewis.

In the Weight of Glory Lewis writes, “We are half-hearted creatures, fooling about with drink and sex and ambition when infinite joy is offered us, like an ignorant child who wants to go on making mud pies in the slum because he cannot imagine what is meant by the offer of a holiday at the sea. We are far too easily pleased. (25–26)”

This is right out of the words of Paul in 1 Corinthians chapter 10, “7 Do not be idolaters as some of them were; as it is written, “The people sat down to eat and drink and rose up to play.” 8 We must not indulge in sexual immorality as some of them did, and twenty-three thousand fell in a single day. 9 We must not put Christ to the test, as some of them did and were destroyed by serpents, 10 nor grumble, as some of them did and were destroyed by the Destroyer. 11 Now these things happened to them as an example, but they were written down for our instruction, on whom the end of the ages has come. 12 Therefore let anyone who thinks that he stands take heed lest he fall. 13 No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it. 14 Therefore, my beloved, flee from idolatry.”

And I hate to tell you, idolatry is far more subversive than those big three; drink, sex, and ambition. It is as subtle as control. There are plenty of Christians out there who integrate practices into their daily routines to gain a semblance of control over their circumstances: diet, exercise, and health regimes can all be idols. Tribal practices from hundreds or maybe thousands of years ago that have been integrated into our culture and accepted even by Christians such as smudging, the burning of herbs such as sage to cleanse negative energy can be idolatrous practices.

I’ve been meditating on Asa, who was one of the good kings of Judah in the divided kingdom. At the end of his life, Asa drifted from the Lord. And it says that, “Asa was diseased in his feet, and his disease became severe. Yet even in his disease he did not seek the Lord, but sought help from physicians.” Now this is not saying don’t get help from doctors but even then we should be seeking the Lord first and not other things.

Idolatry is as subtle as comfort. Building up things in our life so that we don’t have to be inconvenienced. Has that thought or phrase ever influenced any of your decisions making, lifestyle choices, purchasing history, or caused arguments with your loved ones? “I just don’t want to be inconvenienced.”

About once every couple years I have an absolute meltdown. Because the things I want, you see, all cost about $3,000 or more. Like a one-wheel. And so, you can ask Jenny, I’m like I’m going to buy one, I’m going to do it. And then I throw a tantrum because I know I’m not going to actually do it. I’m much too sensible to just drop that much money on something that I don’t really need. Idolatry is as subtle as comfort.

Idolatry is as subtle as security. My friend Joe from New Zealand is so amazed by the culture of Christians in the South, even pastors, to have safes or rooms full of guns. Even for hunting let alone protection that’s a bit much. It has to be justified by a kitschy sign; “This house is protected by the good Lord and a gun, you might meet both if you enter unwelcomed.” Or, “In God we trust, guns are just a backup.” Idolatry is as subtle as security.

And so too, religious ceremonies can be idolatrous when the focus is on the rite at the expense of the God behind it. To easily ceremonies become rituals to win one over on God. They become spiritual tug-of-wars to gain power, control, security over our earthly circumstances which are quite simply out of our control.

There’s a story in Acts 19 that I love where Paul is doing his thing, very similar to what we’re doing right now in fact, and the fear of the Lord falls on the people. And so they all start bringing out these spell books and burning them. They were cut to the heart. And the thing about this story is that these are Christians. These are believers. What “spell books” are you still holding on to?

There is the very real possibility that we too may have lost all sense of the weight and wonder of communion.

WE ARE PARTAKERS

“15 I speak as to sensible people; judge for yourselves what I say. 16 The cup of blessing that we bless, is it not a participation in the blood of Christ? The bread that we break, is it not a participation in the body of Christ? 17 Because there is one bread, we who are many are one body, for we all partake of the one bread. 18 Consider the people of Israel: are not those who eat the sacrifices participants in the altar? 19 What do I imply then? That food offered to idols is anything, or that an idol is anything? 20 No, I imply that what pagans sacrifice they offer to demons and not to God. I do not want you to be participants with demons. 21 You cannot drink the cup of the Lord and the cup of demons. You cannot partake of the table of the Lord and the table of demons. 22 Shall we provoke the Lord to jealousy? Are we stronger than he? (1 Corinthians 10:15-22)”

You can’t have your toe in Christianity and your toe in other things. Jesus doesn’t negotiate like we do with our kids at dinner. One more bite? How about five more bites? Two more bites? How about you eat the whole plate, okay?

As such, communion is not an act of eating, but an act of participation. As we partake we identify ourselves fully as in Christ.

Jesus doesn’t offer us a buffet style menu of beliefs and teachings to pick and choose from. He’s patient but he doesn’t negotiate.

Communion is more than just food passing through our mouths and into our digestive systems. It is an opportunity to praise, and rejoice, and enjoy the Lord. To remind us continually what life is all about.

Communion is a picture of you saying, “This is my story. This is who I am. Everything else is a lie.”

There’s another quote from C.S. Lewis in his Reflections on the Psalms where he muses, “The Psalmists in telling everyone to praise God are doing what all men do when they speak of what they care about… I think we delight to praise what we enjoy because the praise not merely expresses but completes the enjoyment; it is its appointed consummation… The Scotch catechism says that man’s chief end is “to glorify God and enjoy Him forever”. But we shall then know that these are the same thing. Fully to enjoy is to glorify. In commanding us to glorify Him, God is inviting us to enjoy Him.”

Enjoying God is the essence of praising God. Enjoying God from the heart is essential to glorifying God from the heart. Communion is a picture of you saying, “This is my story. This is who I am. My joy is in the Lord. I delight in God.”

Listen to 1 Peter 3:18: “Christ suffered once for sins, the righteous for the unrighteous, that he might bring us to God” — that he might bring us to God in whose presence is fullness of joy and at whose right hand are pleasures forevermore (Psalm 16:11).

This is my story. This is who I am. My joy is in the Lord. I delight in God.

IT’S FOR YOUR NEIGHBOR

Paul continues, 23 “All things are lawful,” but not all things are helpful. “All things are lawful,” but not all things build up. 24 Let no one seek his own good, but the good of his neighbor. 25 Eat whatever is sold in the meat market without raising any question on the ground of conscience. 26 For “the earth is the Lord's, and the fullness thereof.” 27 If one of the unbelievers invites you to dinner and you are disposed to go, eat whatever is set before you without raising any question on the ground of conscience. 28 But if someone says to you, “This has been offered in sacrifice,” then do not eat it, for the sake of the one who informed you, and for the sake of conscience— 29 I do not mean your conscience, but his. For why should my liberty be determined by someone else's conscience?

Here are those repeated phrases once again which we saw a few chapters ago. The Corinthians had this mantra, “All things are lawful.” People today do the same thing, they start out with a truth and twist it to justify a desire. “We’re free right? God is love so there is no judgment. Do what you want.” “But your freedom is killing your soul”, Paul says. “It’s killing your neighbor.”

Let me ask you a question, “How much is your neighbor’s faith your priority? How about your spouse’s faith? How much are you thinking of your neighbor’s faith when it comes to the way you live?”

And I know that the idea of neighbor can be confusing. Some of us live miles away from our neighbors. Some of us have never even met our neighbors. It was just as confusing back then as it is now. Thankfully, Jesus answers the question, “who is my neighbor” in the parable of the good Samaritan and He defines the term for us. I’m not going to read it for the sake of time, but Jesus directs the question back at us. Whom can you be a neighbor to? Whom can you be for? Whom can you want Jesus for? Whom can you work for their spiritual good? That’s your neighbor. It’s a pretty open ended category. Who is in your life right now that you can be a neighbor to?

Is there anything in your life and the way you live that would confuse them, that would get in the way of their journey toward Christ? The unfortunate part of Christianity sometimes is the people involved. Most people who are dechurched left because of people, not God. We’re not talking about being perfect, but being consistent. Don’t live in a way that confuses those around you.

Communion should be a demonstration of unity, a demonstration that we are equal in our need for Jesus. You will never meet a person that doesn’t need Jesus. That includes you. As Paul writes to these so-called spiritual giants, he is constantly reminding us that we all need Jesus. We are equal in our need for Jesus. Maturity is found as we see ourselves more clearly in need rather than as a people who have it all figured out.

And this position of need should draw us together rather than push us apart. We are all partakers. Not one of us has arrived here on our own merit. We haven’t earned it. We are identified with Jesus in His life, and His death, and His resurrection. It unites us across all barriers. It is the picture in Revelation that says, “9 After this I looked, and behold, a great multitude that no one could number, from every nation, from all tribes and peoples and languages, standing before the throne and before the Lamb, clothed in white robes, with palm branches in their hands, 10 and crying out with a loud voice, “Salvation belongs to our God who sits on the throne, and to the Lamb!” (Revelation 7:9-10)

Communion makes the statement: “These are my people. And nothing comes between us.”

THE OBJECT OF THE LOVE FEAST

This is a family meal. Christ has taken us all in — in all our diversity, in all our stories, in all our sinfulness, in all of our sufferings. Because there is only one true bread from heaven, all who believe in him are one body, eating and drinking spiritually from one great shared hope.

How much greater, then, is the new covenant family meal that celebrates the once-for-all sacrifice of Christ for the forgiveness of our sins? How much greater that God does not dwell in a temple far away, but instead indwells us as his temple so that when we come to the Table, Christ is with us by his Spirit? How much greater that we are not joined by circumcision into a physical, temporary nation, but instead joined by the blood of Christ into a spiritual, eternal family?

30 If I partake with thankfulness, why am I denounced because of that for which I give thanks? 31 So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God. 32 Give no offense to Jews or to Greeks or to the church of God, 33 just as I try to please everyone in everything I do, not seeking my own advantage, but that of many, that they may be saved.

The Lord's Supper is precious beyond words as a gift from Jesus to his church not only as a reminder of his death for us, but also as an occasion when he draws near to nourish our intimacy with him and strengthen us by his shed blood and his body–by his presence.

In communion we make the firm declaration, “Jesus is my God”. Jesus is my God, and whatever He says goes. All that I am belongs to Him. All that I do is done for Him. Jesus is my God and whatever He says goes.

Do you see that? Do you feel that? To be a disciple means to love God with ALL. Do you see how your occupation is there to serve and glorify God? All that I am belongs to Him. All that I do is done for Him. Jesus is my God and whatever He says goes.

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These are the statements we make every week as we eat this bread and drink from this cup. This is my story. This is who I am. Everything else is a lie. These are my people. And nothing comes between us. Jesus is my God. Whatever he says goes.

These are the confessions we live by as the family of God.

Resources (*the views expressed within the following content are solely the author's and may not necessarily reflect the opinions and beliefs of Mountainside Church):

https://tabletalkmagazine.com/article/2023/08/the-heart-is-an-idol-factory/#:~:text=The%20problem%20is%20not%20that,is%20a%20perpetual%20idol%20factory.%E2%80%9D

https://midtowndowntown.com/sermons/flee-from-idolatry

https://midtowndowntown.com/sermons/5-meals-that-changed-the-world

https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/eat-and-drink-with-jesus

https://www.desiringgod.org/messages/idolatry-the-lords-supper-and-the-body-of-christ

https://dirtyhands.wordpress.com/2016/07/01/the-commandment-we-all-break/

The Who of Love | Compelled by Love - 1 Corinthians 9 | April 28


Intro

Hey family! How are we all doing?

I know we are getting close to wrapping up a series in 1 Corinthians [whether it seems like it or not I don't know], but there are these verses in 2 Corinthians which I’d love to share with you. They say, “13 If it seems we are crazy, it is to bring glory to God. And if we are in our right minds, it is for your benefit. 14 Either way, Christ’s love controls us. [The NIV version says that Christ’s love compels us. The power of Christ compels you.]

Since we believe that Christ died for all, we also believe that we have all died to our old life. 15 He died for everyone so that those who receive his new life will no longer live for themselves. Instead, they will live for Christ, who died and was raised for them.”

What we’re talking about right is motivation. What motivates you? What is controlling your decisions? What compels you in this life? The love of Christ here sort of has two means of interpretation–two ways of looking at it. It is both God’s love for people that motivates Paul to share the Gospel and it is also Paul’s love for God that allows for Christ to control him. There’s this song, maybe we’ll sing it. “Jesus, Savior, Pilot Me”. God’s love for us and Paul’s love for God allow for a life where Paul is driven by His Captain, His King, His Pilot–Jesus.

“The great love of Christ was such that “Christ died for all” people (2 Corinthians 5:14, NLT). Paul’s love for Christ was such that he was willing to die to self (see Galatians 2:20)... When the apostle Paul wrote, “The love of Christ compels us,” he was describing the powerful, Spirit-filled motivation that drives followers of Christ to share the gospel in ways that persuade people to commit their lives to Jesus.”

In these three chapters, we are exploring the who of love. In the next chapters we’ll talk about the Way of love and the Why of love. In some sense these all noticeably blend together. Next week, in chapter 10, and this week in chapter 9 we’re still looking at the Who of love. God is the who of love initiating within us the desire to pursue others in love. The who of love compels us to think of others who are not here and to invite them in.

What we’re going to talk about today is just this. Is the love of God compelling you? What does that mean? What does that practically look like in your life, in your decisions, in your finance? Are you compelled to invite others into this family? The church exists for those who are not here–to share the love of God and bring them in. Does the love of God compel you?

With those questions in mind, let’s get right into our text this morning

COMPELLED TO GIVE

Paul’s really going to hit us over the head with some truth this morning. Listen, what we are compelled to is hard, but what we are compelled by still outweighs the hardship. The prize outweighs the price. We’ll talk about the prize more directly at the end of our time, for now ask yourself, what’s your motivation in life? What drives you? As we saw in 2 Corinthians 5, for the Christian, it is the love of Christ that compels us–we are compelled by love. Since we are compelled by love we are compelled to love, we are compelled to act, we are compelled to do–we are compelled to live…

“The way we live our lives has eternal consequences. Life is a proving ground where we prove who we are, whom we trust, and what we cherish. Eternal life, the upward call, the crown of righteousness—all these hang on what our life says about who we are, whom we trust, and what we love.”

And “God has not saved you to sit on the edge of the pool with your feet in the water. God has saved you to spend yourself for the glory of his Son (Philippians 1:20)… The point of salvation is to make the glory of God visible in the universe.”

So let’s read these verses,

“1 Am I not free? Am I not an apostle? Have I not seen Jesus our Lord? Are not you my workmanship in the Lord? 2 If to others I am not an apostle, at least I am to you, for you are the seal of my apostleship in the Lord.

3 This is my defense to those who would examine me. 4 Do we not have the right to eat and drink? 5 Do we not have the right to take along a believing wife, as do the other apostles and the brothers of the Lord and Cephas? 6 Or is it only Barnabas and I who have no right to refrain from working for a living? 7 Who serves as a soldier at his own expense? Who plants a vineyard without eating any of its fruit? Or who tends a flock without getting some of the milk?

8 Do I say these things on human authority? Does not the Law say the same? 9 For it is written in the Law of Moses, “You shall not muzzle an ox when it treads out the grain.” Is it for oxen that God is concerned? 10 Does he not certainly speak for our sake? It was written for our sake, because the plowman should plow in hope and the thresher thresh in hope of sharing in the crop. 11 If we have sown spiritual things among you, is it too much if we reap material things from you? 12 If others share this rightful claim on you, do not we even more?

Nevertheless, we have not made use of this right, but we endure anything rather than put an obstacle in the way of the gospel of Christ. 13 Do you not know that those who are employed in the temple service get their food from the temple, and those who serve at the altar share in the sacrificial offerings? 14 In the same way, the Lord commanded that those who proclaim the gospel should get their living by the gospel.

We’ve encountered some strange stuff so far–no doubt. And this is a bit strange. For some reason Paul goes on this rant to justify his apostleship, a rant about how he and Barnabas still have to work to support themselves even though Peter and the other apostles don’t work, they get their money from the church for the work of speaking the Gospel. He uses several examples to justify his frustration and why he has the right to be financially supported by the churches he plants even though he doesn’t make use of that right with the Corinthians.

And he says some weird stuff like, “You shall not muzzle an ox when it treads out the grain.” He takes an old testament law about livestock and applies it to the contemporary setting of priestly work. After all, is God not concerned for our sake? Should spiritual work not be financially supported? Why is it important enough to mention. Especially since Paul at times was supported by other churches, but not the Corinthians apparently.

What Paul is doing is setting up a line of argumentation that will build upon itself to lead us to the ultimate conclusion of the ultimate value of God’s love and the prize of the work. Financial gain is fine and Biblically supported is what he’s saying, but material gains are not the prize he will speak of at the end of the chapter. Even so, he wants the Corinthians to see that the work of the Gospel is worthy of our time, our talent, and–yes even our treasure. We needed to be financially invested in the mission of God!

Back in 2012, the Summit Church in Raleigh did an “All-in Generosity” series about sacrifice, stewardship, treasure, trust, and mission. The series asks us to live our lives with open hands, that everything we have in our lives we would open up in surrender to Him. I remember a testimony of a mother holding on to her children and realizing she couldn’t let them go. She had made her family, her children her idol, and she realized that she was trying to hold it all together herself and wasn’t surrendering her children’s future to the Lord. She was placing all the pressure on her shoulders and so as she prayed to have open hands, she imagined letting go of her children and trusting them to the Lord. That’s one example. What are you holding on to? There are, of course, some more obvious financial considerations with regard to generosity.

Here’s the thing, God is all in. He is fully committed to us and His mission. But sometimes our hearts aren’t in it. In Matthew, Jesus says, “21 Wherever your treasure is, there the desires of your heart will also be” (Matthew 6:21). If you want to know what you care about, look at what you give most of your money to. If you want to know how much you love Starbucks, or Hatchet, or Local Lion perhaps, look at how much money you spend there. How much money goes to streaming services. How much money do we pour into our quality of life. That’s all I do at work. The cliche saying is, “If you build a better place to live, work, and play, you’ll build a better place where people want to visit.”

It always amazes me to think about professional athletes and finances because the statistics are astonishing. We are taught to idolize athletes as children and some children are groomed to be athletes to provide wealth for the family, but the truth is that “78% of professional athletes go broke after 3 years of retirement.” Seventy-eight percent! Mostly because of overspending. But their spending shows what they love. Most of them feel an obligation to family, friends, and their neighborhoods so they pour their money into these things. And these are not bad things, they are better than other things professional athletes tend to overspend on that I probably shouldn’t mention. But even a mansion for Grandma is not permanent, especially if you’re broke.

And the truth is that what we invest our finances in matters because “This world in its present form is passing away” (1 Corinthians 7:31). All these things are non-permanent. Why not invest in what will last? Why not invest in God’s mission? Why not invest in this church? I don’t care how much! I mean I know what we need for our budgets. And the Old Testament tithe of 10% is a good starting point, but the Biblical standard is generosity. What does it look like for you to give generously of your treasure?

This is not a “It is more blessed to give than to receive” (Acts 20:35) kind of message. Though that is true and Biblical. This is a we are compelled by the love of Christ in us, for us, and for this world to give our financial resources for the sake of His mission and His kingdom.

Listen, I don’t know who gives to this church or how much they give. I don’t look at those numbers. So if you’re thinking he’s looking right at me. That’s not on me. I’m looking at everyone. That’s perhaps the Spirit tugging at your heart. Because you’ll love where your money is. So what is it that you’re loving? Love God’s church more!

COMPELLED TO SACRIFICE

We are compelled to give and we are compelled to sacrifice.

15 But I have made no use of any of these rights, nor am I writing these things to secure any such provision. For I would rather die than have anyone deprive me of my ground for boasting. 16 For if I preach the gospel, that gives me no ground for boasting. For necessity is laid upon me. Woe to me if I do not preach the gospel! 17 For if I do this of my own will, I have a reward, but if not of my own will, I am still entrusted with a stewardship. 18 What then is my reward? That in my preaching I may present the gospel free of charge, so as not to make full use of my right in the gospel.

We know that Paul did receive financial support, perhaps only from the Philippian church and maybe only on rare occasions, but Paul as we read even here, Paul wasn’t opposed to financial support. Nevertheless, he didn’t make use of this right amongst the Corinthians. Paul sacrifices his right for financial gain for the sake of the Corinthians who based on their divisions would not receive the blessing of giving with a right heart but would have more reason to be puffed up and divided.

Philippians 4 says, “17 Not that I seek the gift, but I seek the fruit that increases to your credit. 18 I have received full payment, and more….”

“He’s not trying to gain the pleasure of money. He’s not trying to gain the power of rights. The gospel has already assured him that he will gain the fullness of the enjoyment of Christ. And now, he wants to gain people… I will magnify the worth of the gospel, the worth of Christ — by showing that the satisfaction it gives — that he gives — does not need to be supplemented by the pleasures of money or the pleasures of power.”

As many of you know, I work a full-time job. Not because I’m financially concerned about trusting God with the salary Mountainside can support–I’m not. I am forced, by some of you, to take a small salary from Mountainside, which isn’t completely my choice because I would do this for free and maybe one day I will convince enough of you that I should. I work a full-time job to demonstrate in my own life what is of most importance. For all of us who work, I will always pour my life into this, whether I’m paid or not, because this is of greatest value. And if I’m doing it, you can do it too.

To be a Christian is to be one who sacrifices. There’s a sermon/interview that I mean to listen to once a year from the church we were a part of in Columbia, SC; and one thing it says is if you’re not denying yourself at least 70-80% of the time or even more than that, then you might need to question whether you’re actually following Jesus. I don’t know if those statistics match up, but it bears asking if I’m not sacrificing in my life at all then am I really a Christian? Am I really a follower of Jesus? Am I really a little anointed one that is providing a place where Heaven meets earth and God is glorified?

Here’s a quick definition of sacrifice. It may be helpful. Sacrificing means to give up what I love for something I love more. Sacrificing means to give up what you love for something you love more.

Brad, a classmate of Rebekah’s, has been hanging out with our family group when he’s in town for school. The first week he was with us he brought up a profound truth that is almost exactly what Paul is writing. He shared that what we see in the scriptures is that we are to be patient. But how do I even know what it means to be patient? What does it even look like? I can’t even understand patience except as it is demonstrated by Jesus. We don’t even know how to live were it not for the example of Jesus. What does it look like to sacrifice? We look to Jesus. Jesus is our standard for life. He is the object of our love and the example for how to love.

Jesus provides the example of what sacrifice is. We cannot understand what it even means to sacrifice were it not for the Word of God come to life in the person of Jesus–God made flesh. He sacrificed for you and shows us, provides the example, the definition for what it means to sacrifice.

The question I want you to ask yourself is, what could I sacrifice for the mission of God? What could I sacrifice to see people changed by the Gospel of Christ? What might I need to do to rearrange my time, or my schedule, or my money? How might I need to reorder my life to see people meet Jesus?

What compels you? What do you love? Love God’s mission more!

COMPELLED TO LOVE

We are compelled by Christ’s love to give. We are compelled to sacrifice. And as if it were not obvious enough, we are compelled to love.

19 For though I am free from all, I have made myself a servant to all, that I might win more of them. 20 To the Jews I became as a Jew, in order to win Jews. To those under the law I became as one under the law (though not being myself under the law) that I might win those under the law. 21 To those outside the law I became as one outside the law (not being outside the law of God but under the law of Christ) that I might win those outside the law. 22 To the weak I became weak, that I might win the weak. I have become all things to all people, that by all means I might save some. 23 I do it all for the sake of the gospel, that I may share with them in its blessings.

Here’s another one of those word repetitions. Paul says I serve all to win some. I lay aside my pride and my preferences and my desires so that I might see the people around me transformed by the Gospel. I become like all to win as many as I can.

Then in the last repetition he switches from the word win to the word save. Just as repetition is important, a purposeful break in repetition is just as or even more important. “We are compelled by love for the sake of the gospel to share Christ and win new family members, and in our winning Christ saves them and we share in the blessing of joy and rejoice with the Heavens… It is a transformative experience in such a sense that Paul felt the need to relate to people, to bridge the gap, even to Jews though technically he was already a Jew, how does that work?”

“In other words, the Jewish man, Paul, was so profoundly and pervasively redefined — given a new identity — by union with Christ Jesus, that Jewishness was not his truest, deepest identity anymore and, therefore, in order to win Jews, he had to become a Jew. When you become a Christian, your family roots, your tribal connections, your ethnicity and race, your nation of origin—all of them become secondary, at most. And the real you is something supernaturally new, different. A new creation. A new family identity in Christ. A new citizenship in his kingdom. Every other identity and allegiance is relativized.”

We are compelled by the love of God to be people who love–to be people who love well.

“10 This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. 11 Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. 12 No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us… 19 We love because he first loved us” (1 John 4:10-12, 19).

Do I love Jesus and His mission? Do you love Jesus and His mission? If you think through all the names and faces of people you know and have some sort of relationship with, who would you love to see part of the family next year? Whatever you love in this life, learn to love Jesus and the spread of His gospel more… become all things to all people, that by all means you might save some. That someone new in your life will be welcomed in the family this year.

OUTRO - COMPELLED BY THE PRIZE

“Paul’s aim is to gain more and more people so that he can “share with them the blessings of the gospel.” His intent and purpose has a prize in mind. He’s got his eyes set on a blessing to be shared.

24 Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one receives the prize? So run that you may obtain it. 25 Every athlete exercises self-control in all things. They do it to receive a perishable wreath, but we an imperishable. 26 So I do not run aimlessly; I do not box as one beating the air. 27 But I discipline my body and keep it under control, lest after preaching to others I myself should be disqualified.

Again what is motivating you? What prize are you chasing after? To be the one who dies with the most stuff. Some people consider that winning. To stack your sexual conquests against another? How we live proves what we love–what compels us.

Our lives should change when we encounter Christ. They shouldn’t still be the same. We shouldn’t still love the same things we used to. We shouldn’t prioritize the same pursuits. We spent the last several weeks of 1 Corinthians talking about marriage. When you get married something should be different. We’ve been to so many weddings where it was just another day and then life would continue as it always had. But marriage should usher in a different way of life. In the same way, the Church is the bride of Christ, so encountering God should usher in a new way of living—a new identity.

“The race Paul was running (and calling us to run) was not merely about guarding the faith in our own hearts, but about pursuing that faith and joy in others… Paul was running to win the lost, despite how much effort it required and how much it cost him. He was talking about aggressive mission, not merely secret devotion.”

“I tell you, there is joy before the angels of God over one sinner who repents” (Luke 15:10)

“What is our hope or joy or crown of boasting before our Lord Jesus at his coming?” he asks the Thessalonians. “Is it not you? For you are our glory and joy” (1 Thessalonians 2:19–20).

Every time you show up on a Sunday is worth it. Every time you drag yourself to family night rather than staying home in your pajamas is worth it. Wear your pajamas to family group. Every time you sacrifice for the kingdom and to welcome someone new into the family it is worth it. Every time you deny your desires and say no to sin and yes to Jesus it is so worth it!

Resources (*the views expressed within the following content are solely the author's and may not necessarily reflect the opinions and beliefs of Mountainside Church):

https://www.gotquestions.org/love-of-Christ-compels-us.html

https://midtowndowntown.com/sermons/the-demands-of-love-part-2

https://www.desiringgod.org/messages/the-missionary-miracle

https://www.desiringgod.org/messages/how-then-shall-we-run

https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/souls-are-our-reward

https://summitchurch.com/series/all-in-generosity

https://www.gotquestions.org/for-where-your-treasure-is.html

The Who of Love | Knowledge and Love - 1 Corinthians 8 | April 21


Intro

Hey family! How are we all doing?

We’re back in the book of 1 Corinthians. And believe it or not we are actually nearing the finish line even though we are just now, after today, halfway through. There’s light at the end of the tunnel.

We have nine chapters left, and while that seems like a lot, what we’ll see is that there is a single unifying theme throughout these last chapters, indeed the whole book really. We mentioned how 1 Corinthians is a book about unity and how to live for God in a world that is overwhelmingly unchristian. And while that is true, those statements don’t really address how we do that as much. I know we’ve talked a lot about the practical side of belief, but there is another theme that does speak more directly to the how. And that is love!

We talked about calling. We are called to love (1 Peter 4:8). We talked about unity. Unity is held in love. We talked about fellowship. Fellowship, togetherness is a demonstration of love. We talked about how to live for God in a world that is overwhelmingly unchristian. The solution is the knowledge of the love of Christ. It’s all about love. 

So as we fill ourselves with the Word of God in these final chapters, we’re going to see love and we’re going to encounter love in three literary units addressing the Who of love; the Way of love; and the Why of love. The Who of love (8-10). The Way of love (11-13). The Why of love (14-16). 

When I say literary movement, I mean that these repetitions of three chapters form a complete thought. So, in chapters 8 through 10 we’ll be looking at the Who of love. We know these chapters form this unit because of the great design of the Bible. It’s breathtakingly beautiful how every word is constructed in perfect accord. Don’t just believe me, I’m going to show you. In chapter 8, we’ll read it in a moment, but just to show you chapter 8 begins, “Now concerning food offered to idols: we know that “all of us possess knowledge.” This “knowledge” puffs up, but love builds up. 2 If anyone imagines that he knows something, he does not yet know as he ought to know. 3 But if anyone loves God, he is known by God.”

And Chapter 10 ends, “24 Let no one seek his own good, but the good of his neighbor. 25 Eat whatever is sold in the meat market without raising any question on the ground of conscience. 26 For ‘the earth is the Lord's, and the fullness thereof.’”

There’s a lot in the middle, but where 8 begins, 10 concludes the thought. That doesn't mean Paul doesn’t chase some rabbits along the way. Paul is notorious for long complicated sentences and big leaps in thought. When I was taking ancient Greek the recommendation was to start with John. You don’t want to read Paul first because you may get discouraged. 

In fact, the apostle Peter even wrote about this. In 2 Peter 3 he says, “15 And remember, our Lord’s patience gives people time to be saved. This is what our beloved brother Paul also wrote to you with the wisdom God gave him— 16 speaking of these things in all of his letters. Some of his comments are hard to understand…”

So he’s going to get distracted along the way; nevertheless, it’s all about love. As we get further along we’ll find passages that have been used to teach in other ways are actually really about love all along. Perhaps the whole book is about love. Maybe even the whole Bible if it’s not too bold of me to say. It’s a love story about a God who loves and pursues His creation. Even though we continue to reject His love, He continues to provide a way for us. It’s all about love. 

In the beginning of the chapter it sets the stage, “we know that “all of us possess knowledge.” This “knowledge” puffs up, but love builds up. 2 If anyone imagines that he knows something, he does not yet know as he ought to know. 3 But if anyone loves God, he is known by God.

The Who of love. It’s about knowing God and being known by God. There is a right knowing that leads to a right loving. Right knowing loves people and builds them up and it treasures and values God. You don’t know anything if your knowing is not resulting in a love for God.

Well here, let me just read the whole thing.

SCRIPTURE

1 Corinthians 8, “Now concerning food offered to idols: we know that “all of us possess knowledge.” This “knowledge” puffs up, but love builds up. 2 If anyone imagines that he knows something, he does not yet know as he ought to know. 3 But if anyone loves God, he is known by God.

4 Therefore, as to the eating of food offered to idols, we know that “an idol has no real existence,” and that “there is no God but one.” 5 For although there may be so-called gods in heaven or on earth—as indeed there are many “gods” and many “lords”— 6 yet for us there is one God, the Father, from whom are all things and for whom we exist, and one Lord, Jesus Christ, through whom are all things and through whom we exist.

7 However, not all possess this knowledge. But some, through former association with idols, eat food as really offered to an idol, and their conscience, being weak, is defiled. 8 Food will not commend us to God. We are no worse off if we do not eat, and no better off if we do. 9 But take care that this right of yours does not somehow become a stumbling block to the weak. 10 For if anyone sees you who have knowledge eating in an idol's temple, will he not be encouraged, if his conscience is weak, to eat food offered to idols? 11 And so by your knowledge this weak person is destroyed, the brother for whom Christ died. 12 Thus, sinning against your brothers and wounding their conscience when it is weak, you sin against Christ. 13 Therefore, if food makes my brother stumble, I will never eat meat, lest I make my brother stumble.”

KNOWLEDGE & LOVE

So it’s about love. And it’s about knowledge. It’s about love. It’s about knowledge. And it’s about how these intertwine with one another, and work with one another, or at times work against one another.

Because there is a “so-called-knowledge” and there is a real knowledge. While real knowledge leads to life and love, this so-called-knowledge, under which we tend to operate by default, leads to destruction and death. So knowledge, then, is essential but it’s not sufficient. There are ways in which you can have knowledge, you can be right in a sense, but ultimately be wrong. Knowledge is not enough without love. There’s a knowing and then there’s a knowing as you ought to know. There’s a loving and then there’s a loving as you ought to love.

So what’s really going on here?

IDOLATRY

Let’s start building some meaning, building some understanding, and working on that right knowledge. The context is idolatry. “Now concerning food offered to idols… Therefore, as to the eating of food offered to idols…”

In the exchange of letters that preceded 1 Corinthians, because remember this is not the first letter Paul wrote to them, at some point someone from Corinth wrote back to Paul asking his advice about what to do at social gathering where the food was probably ritually sacrificed to an idol, knowing that some of the Gentiles who became Christians may sin by eating because not too long ago they were worshiping these non-gods. In other words, there’s probably a Jewish believer who has knowledge that idols are not really gods and wants Paul to give him permission to eat and not feel guilty even though some of the Gentiles have expressed concerns. As we know Paul’s not going to do that, but he’s going to use this opportunity to teach an even greater lesson about love.

In reality, these idolatrous ceremonies were big parties where business deals were happening. It was a social event. And if you weren’t there you were missing out on key networking opportunities. This is the Linkedin of the ancient world. If you weren’t there you might not financially make it. The question is not really about food, it’s about livelihood. But the people being saved out of that world can’t separate the eating from the worship.

We know idols to be little carved images made by human hands, but they thought of them as real gods. Isaiah 44 says, “9 How foolish are those who manufacture idols. These prized objects are really worthless. The people who worship idols don’t know this, so they are all put to shame. 10 Who but a fool would make his own god—”

Who would do something like that? :He says sarcastically:

This still happens today. For sure this happens, in certain parts of this world. But because there’s not a one to one correlation in our own culture it may be easy to think that we don’t have an idol problem. Let me put your mind at ease right now, we definitely have an idol problem in this culture. They’re just a little more deceptive–just below the surface.

In Romans 1 it says, “...They knew God, but they wouldn’t worship him as God or even give him thanks. And they began to think up foolish ideas of what God was like. As a result, their minds became dark and confused. 22 Claiming to be wise, they instead became utter fools. 23 And instead of worshiping the glorious, ever-living God, they worshiped idols made to look like mere people…”

Our idols tend to look a lot like people. Maybe even ourselves. We become our own God trying to satisfy our own insatiable desires. You see back then idolatry was all about control–gaining some semblance of control over life’s hardships. I want a good harvest so I’m going to do this special ceremony for this god and gain control of the circumstances that are beyond my control so I can have a good harvest or get pregnant or this or that. It’s all about control.

Sometimes we treat God that way. We worship ourselves and use God to get what we want and gain control over our circumstances. And it’s reflected in our prayers. We tell God what He should do. But Jesus teaches us to pray, “Our Father in Heaven, holy is Your name. Your kingdom come. Your will be done on earth as it is in Heaven.” But instead we’re trying to build our own kingdoms. We’ve become lovers of self.

LOVERS OF SELF

2 Timothy 3 starts out, “You should know this, Timothy, that in the last days there will be very difficult times. 2 For people will love only themselves and their money. They will be boastful and proud, scoffing at God, disobedient to their parents, and ungrateful. They will consider nothing sacred. 3 They will be unloving and unforgiving; they will slander others and have no self-control. They will be cruel and hate what is good. 4 They will betray their friends, be reckless, be puffed up with pride, and love pleasure rather than God. 5 They will act religious, but they will reject the power that could make them godly. Stay away from people like that!”

Watch out! Beware! It’s going to be the case more and more that people are only going to love themselves. The love that they had for one another will grow cold (Matthew 24:12). They’re love for their brother will grow cold and they’ll love only themselves. That’s all they’ll do everyday is look at themselves, stare at themselves, talk about themselves. They’ll go to the Grand Canyon and take pictures of themselves. They’re not going to be these life giving spirits (1 Corinthians 15:45). They’re going to suck the life out of every relationship. They’re going to live their lives in selfie mode.

And this is not talking about the world, this is talking about people within the church. It’s talking about us! We’re the problem. We read passages like, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself” (Matthew 22:39), and we think I just gotta love myself more! That’s not what it’s saying, that’s not the point. You love yourself enough. You’re all you ever talk about. You do not need the Spirit of God to be concerned with yourself.

Jesus is not on display through our collective self interests. He didn’t become human and get tortured and murdered to leave us in our self-consumed state. Jesus did not die to create a community of self-centered people.

And so, the Corinthians, when they ask this question about food sacrificed to idols, they’re not concerned with their brother. So Paul writes, “‘all of us possess knowledge.’ [But] this “knowledge” puffs up…. 2 If anyone imagines that he knows something, he does not yet know as he ought to know.”

You know, but you don’t know. Your knowing is defective. Your knowing is broken. Even though you are kind of right, ultimately you’re wrong because you were more concerned with yourself than for your brother for whom Christ died. If you know something, it should make a difference.

And so, we too come to church and walk away thinking that didn’t really do it for me this morning. The sermon didn’t speak to me. I don’t really like the way Zach preaches, his style doesn’t resonate with me. The songs didn’t move me. I wasn't really feeling it. That’s not what it’s about.

And we go to family group and think, they don’t care enough about my problems, about what I’m going through. Or we don’t share much of ourselves at all and we just allow other people to be vulnerable and we never really give the Spirit any opportunity to change us. Our knowing is broken.

Listen, some of us know very little about the Bible. The only time we even hear the Word of God is on a Sunday or perhaps at a family group. And that’s not right, we’ve got to be feasting on these words of life on our own too. Loving God happens when you know as you ought to know. Some of us need some more knowing.

Others of us know the Scriptures very well, but we use them to convince and justify our own preferences and desires. But that’s not what it’s about. That’s not the point. We should love one another more than we care about our preferences or our rights.

Yes, you’re right, Paul says; the idols are not really gods. But that’s not the point. The point is that in using your knowledge, you weren’t thinking about your brother. If you know something, it should make a difference.

LOVE YOUR BROTHER

You must love your brother. Right knowledge leads us to right love which sacrifices for the sake of our brother.

“First John 4:12 says, “No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us.” Here the apostle John is talking about the love that we Christians should have for one another. When you look at your Christian brothers and sisters, do you honestly love them? Do you say, “That’s my brother — if he were ever in trouble, I would be right there with him”?

Is that the type of love you have for those around you? God means that we embody this kind of love. When John writes, “No one has ever seen God,” do you get it? Here’s what he’s saying: if we could love each other the way God loves us, then someone who doesn’t even know God, someone who’s never seen his beauty spiritually, may be able to see the love of God in our love for each other.

Just as Jesus embodied God in the incarnation as God in the flesh, so there is a sense in which this is passed on to us. In our love for others, we now incarnate God’s love, so to speak, because others see the love of God in us in a way they would not otherwise. As people come into our gatherings, do they see so much love that they actually get a glimpse of God? Or do they only see a lot of knowledge on display?” (Francis Chan).

Sure, there is also an expectation for our brothers to grow in knowledge and love of God and so not remain in a state of weakness. Hebrews 6 says, “So let us stop going over the basic teachings about Christ again and again. Let us go on instead and become mature in our understanding. Surely we don’t need to start again with the fundamental importance of repenting from evil deeds and placing our faith in God. 2 You don’t need further instruction about baptisms, the laying on of hands, the resurrection of the dead, and eternal judgment. 3 And so, God willing, we will move forward to further understanding.”

There is an expectation of growth and maturity. That “​​He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus” (Philippians 1:6). But as for our responsibility there exists the reality that to truly love another person you have to accept the unique demands that comes with that person. By the mere act of choosing to love anyone you are agreeing to take the hard and not just the easy. The weakness not just the strength. To love someone you have to accept the demands that come with them.

And what that looks like is not self-centeredness, justifying our freedom, and insisting on our own way. It looks like a healthy other-centeredness. Healthy other-centeredness loves because God first loved. Healthy other-centeredness wants Jesus for other people, leaves room for appropriate responsibility, and prioritizes the spiritual good of others. And it starts by staring at God rather than ourselves or other people for that matter.

LOVE GOD (THE WHO OF LOVE)

We need to stare at God. Not people. Not circumstances. Stare at God. He’s the only place worthy of your attention–worthy of your fixation.

What I want to do to finish our time is just listen to God’s words to Job in chapter 38 and allow us to sit, close your eyes (it may be difficult to stare at God with our eyes open), and stare at the God whose thoughts are not our thoughts and ways are not our ways. He laid the foundations of the world and all of creation moves at His command. Listen and then we’ll sing.

JOB 38

4“Where were you when I laid the foundation of the earth?

Tell me, if you have understanding.

5 Who determined its measurements—surely you know!

Or who stretched the line upon it?

6 On what were its bases sunk,

or who laid its cornerstone,

7 when the morning stars sang together

and all the sons of God shouted for joy?

8 “Or who shut in the sea with doors

when it burst out from the womb,

9 when I made clouds its garment

and thick darkness its swaddling band,

10 and prescribed limits for it

and set bars and doors,

11 and said, ‘Thus far shall you come, and no farther,

and here shall your proud waves be stayed’?

12 “Have you commanded the morning since your days began,

and caused the dawn to know its place,

13 that it might take hold of the skirts of the earth,

and the wicked be shaken out of it?

14 It is changed like clay under the seal,

and its features stand out like a garment.

15 From the wicked their light is withheld,

and their uplifted arm is broken.

16 “Have you entered into the springs of the sea,

or walked in the recesses of the deep?

17 Have the gates of death been revealed to you,

or have you seen the gates of deep darkness?

18 Have you comprehended the expanse of the earth?

Declare, if you know all this.

19 “Where is the way to the dwelling of light,

and where is the place of darkness,

20 that you may take it to its territory

and that you may discern the paths to its home?

21 You know, for you were born then,

and the number of your days is great!

22 “Have you entered the storehouses of the snow,

or have you seen the storehouses of the hail,

23 which I have reserved for the time of trouble,

for the day of battle and war?

24 What is the way to the place where the light is distributed,

or where the east wind is scattered upon the earth?

25 “Who has cleft a channel for the torrents of rain

and a way for the thunderbolt,

26 to bring rain on a land where no man is,

on the desert in which there is no man,

27 to satisfy the waste and desolate land,

and to make the ground sprout with grass?

28 “Has the rain a father,

or who has begotten the drops of dew?

29 From whose womb did the ice come forth,

and who has given birth to the frost of heaven?

30 The waters become hard like stone,

and the face of the deep is frozen.

31 “Can you bind the chains of the Pleiades

or loose the cords of Orion?

32 Can you lead forth the Mazzaroth in their season,

or can you guide the Bear with its children?

33 Do you know the ordinances of the heavens?

Can you establish their rule on the earth?

34 “Can you lift up your voice to the clouds,

that a flood of waters may cover you?

35 Can you send forth lightnings, that they may go

and say to you, ‘Here we are’?

36 Who has put wisdom in the inward parts

or given understanding to the mind?

37 Who can number the clouds by wisdom?

Or who can tilt the waterskins of the heavens,

38 when the dust runs into a mass

and the clods stick fast together?

Resources (*the views expressed within the following content are solely the author's and may not necessarily reflect the opinions and beliefs of Mountainside Church):

https://midtowndowntown.com/sermons/the-demands-of-love-part-1

https://www.desiringgod.org/messages/the-life-of-the-mind-and-the-love-of-man

https://www.desiringgod.org/labs/love-builds-up

https://www.desiringgod.org/messages/think-hard-stay-humble-the-life-of-the-mind-and-the-peril-of-pride